my words came back to bite me in the ass - thank god not literally, not that watching this pile of horse·sh*t wasn't becoming extremely painful, so much so that after the ridiculous scene with Namwhan, i just stopped - Never Ever gonna watch this until the end -

WTF was this??? i get as there is a follow-up movie to the prequel (i liked?!? find that astounding now) so it follows that Toey kept in-touch with Oat - otherwise no movie. but this seriously a plotline that anyone rooting for? yeah get Toey "got it so good" in Japan, he basically brain-washed and can't "see" anyone other then Oat, in spite of seeing Oat with his wife and child - but they a non-factor, as he just friends with him on FB ?!? and of course they keep in-touch and message each other - but that insignificant cause - love??? cause its innocent?? k
but he felt guilt and that's why he sent the message - well "butt" texted it - as he rather be the side-chick then no-one in Oats life. and the sec Oat came to him, he was angry not that he was treating him like the side-chick (he enabled that by keeping in contact with Oat, in the first place) but that it took Oat 4 yrs to finally come seek him out - that was the main thing that angered Teoy -
but he got the spiel down - acting like he cares so much for Oat's wife and child. if he did, he would've Never befriended him via FB or any other app. he for sure wouldn't go seek him out after pushing him away, or welcome him with open arms and invite him into his room - why no other rooms available?!? for sure wouldn't talk about "3 days of oblivion" and then back to reality - like what?!???

sorry but as much as i liked Toey in the prequel, i disliked him in this one - he was selfish and happily wallowing in self-pity, when he enabled everything - he was A willing participant - pretty sure Oat Never told him to wait or that he would leave his family and come seek him out - so who to blame, he wasted 4 yrs waiting - waiting for what? when Yumi called him out on it - he disconnected the call. when Jen called him out on what he was enabling in the present, he shut her down with some B.S about it being "love" - plz nah, this aint love - this is pure selfishness, self-absorption with little to no sensitivity or care towards anyone else feelings and happiness.

anyone arguing the fact that Oat is gay - yeah bad move to begin with - but he chose to go forward with the marriage bringing a child into a family - now that kid doesn't only have to deal with his dad being gay and what that means - but he has no family. and he will blame himself - considering how self-absorbed his father and his father's self-involved bf r - and Namwhan should be freakin anointed for sainthood, that was so far from logical it was mind boggling, if she knew then why keep up the farce? plz plz plz - this was a colossal let down - no love doesn't mean being this self involved, u destroy others just to pave the way to ur own happiness - waste of time!