Not Others (2023)

Amour vache entre mère et fille

Ce n'est pas un thriller ni une comédie romantique à proprement parlé. Lee Min Woo jongle continuellement en ajoutant du drame familial, mais ne reste jamais sur un seul genre à l'écran.

Tout en offrant une dynamique forte à son duo principal, Eun Mi (Jeon Hye Jin) et Jin Hee (Choi Soo Young), le drama explore la relation entre une mère et sa fille alors qu'elles n'ont que seize ans d'écart. L'une est une quadragénaire kinésithérapeute, l'autre est à une année de la trentaine et policière rétrogradée. Dès le premier épisode, le ton est donné quant à la dynamique du duo.

Au fil des scènes, on voit le scénario se renforcer car il s'intéresse principalement aux deux femmes. Les autres personnages sont clairement secondaires et n'ont que pour utilité de faire avancer l'intrigue. Pour ces raisons, la romance est boudée et n'apporte que peu d'intérêt au personnage de Jin Hee. En parlant de Jin Hee, si elle est la plus jeune, elle est pourtant celle qui tient les rênes. Cela dit, Choi Soo Young assure jusqu'au bout avec son style décontracté, mais intense (et voir ses personnages péter les plombs m'amuse toujours). Et c'est là qu'un autre problème se pose, Eun Mi.

Eun Mi est une femme dans la quarantaine qui agit comme une ado rebelle en permanence. Comme si défier sa fille était un jeu. Crise d'ado ou de la quarantaine, chacun son choix. Cependant, il est difficile de voir Eun Mi autrement que comme une femme capricieuse et égoïste qui, malgré elle, prive sa fille de sa liberté. Même le final laisse un goût amer quant aux chemins qu'elles empruntent. Jusqu'au moment où elle doit changer, mais le processus s'inverse d'un épisode à l'autre nous faisant ainsi perdre tout l'intérêt du personnage de Eun Mi au départ.

Le reste des personnages étaient excellents. De Park Sung Hoon à Ahn Jae Wook ainsi que Kim Hye Eun et le reste du poste de police. À la fois drôle et mignon.

Malgré ses défauts, Not Others est un drama coloré avec des personnages décomplexés et sympathiques ainsi qu'une jolie morale sur les valeurs et l'importance des liens (de sang ou de coeur).

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In a unique way affectionately told. Critically nuanced. Not off-the-shelf. Still easy to digest.

I might have easily missed “Not Others”, if I hadn't volunteered to help out with the German subtitling. I'm glad I didn´t miss it, because "Not Others" turned out to be an unorthodox surprise - being unexpectedly substantial and also pleasantly true to life, thus rooted in a rather simple, normal, everyday world. It is the story of a family, above all of a single mother and her daughter, but there are also a few contemporaries who are related by blood or by choice.

The story goes on and on as life goes on and we go with it as a matter of course (and gladly so). (Well, at least that's how it was for me.) There was nothing particularly extraordinary and exciting about it. Just normal madness.

Well, admittedly, a bit more than normal madness... after all, the mother herself is still a teenager when she has her child and doesn't want to give up on some of the youthful pleasures in life - regardless of responsibility for the child. However, the script and the two leads find a good pitch for this very special, unusual and inherently difficult relationship dynamic with all its challenges. A clearly structured 'I'm the grown up and you're the little one' doesn´t exist. It is rather upside down here. Instead of the classic authoritarian hierarchy between parent and child, they both ended up bonding as allies sort of, in a world from which they have fallen. Due to the unusual role constellations, the arguments between mother and daughter often have a slightly funny touch. Behind this, however, lurks a rather unconscious overburdening on both sides. And this earnest approach of this emotionally tricky situation shines through again and again in the strategy of both of them trying to cope with everyday life. However, mother and daughter are overall impressing with their casual authenticity as well as pleasant directness and openness - a communication style that clearly sets them apart from so many others in the story. Choi Soo-young shines here, but especially Jeon Hye-jin, who can show herself from a completely different side in the role of the still youthful mother...).

At some point it's about a criminal case - eventually almost symbolic for the unwanted and eventually professionalized role of the daughter within the mother-daughter-relationship: the need to/the urge to look after her mother. And at some point it's also about romantic love - symbolic for the very human longing to rely on a partner on eye level, to lean on a shoulder... This human need actually concerns mother and grown-up daughter alike. But can there even be a place for 'outsiders' within the mother-daughter relationship?

Please don't take "Not Others" as a crime thriller or even as a RomCom. (The men in particular come along rather secondary...) Ultimately, it is the complicated emotional behavior patterns that characterize the family life of mother and daughter in the context of their very close and extraordinary relationship. This makes the KDrama breathe in and breathe out in its very unique pacing. It is primarily about this uncommon family, with an affectionate, yet critically nuanced look at their very special relationship dynamics. "Not Others" is cautiously questioning established (conservative) family models, too...

Overall, “Not Others” is no off-the-shelf KDrama (like so many others in 2023...).

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