Love and Leashes (2022)

Une comédie romantique aux courbes en cuir

Un thème timide dans les productions sud-coréennes, mais pas désintéressante pour autant. C'est une comédie romantique de bureau avec un décor classique avant qu'il ne prenne une toute nouvelle dimension.

Au travers du film, Park Hyun Jin met l'accent sur de nombreux problèmes rencontrés au travail. Sexisme, harcèlement ou encore propos homophobes. Des points intéressants qui font une bonne alliance avec le monde du BDSM, car souvent pointé du doigt. Cela met également en lumière les raisons pour lesquelles Ji Hoo tenait à rester secret.

Lee Jun Young excelle dans son rôle d’employé de bureau et soumis. Seohyun est stupéfiante lorsqu’elle fait claquer le fouet. Malgré les controverses en raison du casting, le duo offre une performance honnête tout en jonglant entre apprentissage, maîtrise et simplicité.

Bien que le film ne s’éloigne jamais de sa légèreté et permettra une introduction au monde BDSM avec finesse et douceur, il sera malgré tout regrettable de voir que les émotions des personnages resteront au second plan. Nous ne pourrons avoir plus concernant la naissance des sentiments de Ji Woo à l’égard de Ji Hoo, ou inversement. Si les émotions se montrent de temps à autre, elles restent timides. Il est difficile de s’y retrouver ou même de vouloir comprendre où la relation débute et où elle se termine (bien que la frontière entre la relation homme/femme et D/s se dessine sur la fin).

En bref, malgré ses défauts, Love and Leashes offre une légère plongée dans le monde du BDSM avec finesse et respect. En abordant l’homme qui aime être soumis, Park Hyun Jin ne le rend pas moins homme/viril aux yeux de la société. Au travers d’une image lumineuse et minimaliste au bureau, contre des tons sombres et rougeâtre lors des jeux, l’ensemble ne fait qu’accentuer les tensions avec une bande-son légère, mais efficace.

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Fifty Shades should disappear so Love and Leashes can become the introductory standard for BDSM

Going into this movie I was afraid they would make a joke out of BDSM or portray male submissives as pathetic, but I was ecstatic to see that it was not the case in the slightest. This movie is a very solid introduction for what BDSM is and means if you have no clue about it-- even putting up definitions and explanations of terms on screen to make it easier to understand.

The portrayal of male submissives is scarce at best, but actually good, respectful, judgement-free depictions of male submissives are almost nonexistent in mainstream media. That was my primary concern, but if it's yours as well I am here to reassure you that you've got nothing to worry about. The movie does an incredible job of framing Ji Hoo's submissiveness as something that is simply his preference and there's nothing wrong with it, even when others may judge him. Another common problem with the depiction of men who have more submissive personalities is that writers tend to end up delving in the territory of trying to reassure the audience that the character is not *actually* 100% submissive in bed, which is a huge pet peeve of mine. That. Never. Happens. Here.

On the other hand, Ji Woo's character is absolutely incredible because she is the inexperienced Dom that had never been able to put into words what she is actually into. Maybe TMI, but that was me, once. Her quick ease into the Dom role even if she is unsure about doing a good job clearly stems from the fact that this has always been who she is-- she just never had a chance to explore it with anyone. The inexperienced Dom trope also sometimes falls prey to the sudden role switch where the male character takes charge because she is *so* inexperienced and gets *so* easily flustered because of it-- or he was actually in charge all along even if he "acted" submissive, but this incredible movie avoids that completely. He is the submissive, she is the Dom, and even when she may falter and worry she is not doing a good job, those roles remain the same.

You may think this should've been a multi-episode drama instead, but I disagree. Had they done that, the conflicts would've been dragged and many people who may give this a chance because it's  a movie simply wouldn't have watched it. The movie is incredible just the way it is.

This was made by people who took the topic seriously and approached it with nothing but respect, and I am eternally thankful for it.

*It should be noted that I have not read the manga, therefore my opinion is solely based on the movie as a stand-alone story about BDSM.

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