My Mister (2018)

Once in a Blue Kdrama Moon

Not often do you come across a series you acknowledge as a technical masterpiece in terms of it’s quality, buuut stopped in personally acknowledging it as a masterpiece in your perspective.

This drama has almost everything a gritty, dark tone lover can ask for, the cast is stellar. You’re left with no room of preference of any actor replacing any of the cast since they execute their roles flawlessly.

The subtle sub genres they sprinkle over each episode makes you not want to mainly see this show for its romantic elements, it’s overly dramatic moments/characters, it’s severely dark themes. It has you see it for every thing it has to offer, combined under one word, Phenomenal.

Alas, with such great quality all around, I can’t help but to be taken out of the pool of “Masterpiece!!! One of its kind!!!” viewers because of one huge turd in the pool, known as believability.

Now don’t get me wrong, the series for the most part is definitely beyond believable, buuut there lies a certain character(with a HUGE impact on the story btw) that has an upbringing.. that doesn’t align with their current actions. Can you guess who? I’m sure most can and have.

This “specific” character has gone through hell with the FL, even once used to be the FL’s protector, or more so comforter? BUT the main person(his father) both of them opposed and were traumatized the most by in their past, is killed by the FL as someone finally decided to defend themselves. For the sake of the plot, forget this character having to live in this hell hole everyday, forget being there to witness the shit his father has been putting others through constantly due to others’ misfortune. Forget once trying to be the one bonfire warming the FL in this cold cruel world they’re living in. SHE KILLED YOUR BELOVED FATHER!! TORMENT HER FOR THE REST OF HER MISERABLE LIFE AND SHOW HER THE PAIN YOU’RE SUDDENLY GOING THROUGH FROM LOSING HIM. Take over your father’s path that you hated seeing hurt others. You don’t need believable reasoning, you don’t need consistency behind your actions, hell let’s even begin to humanize you well over half way in the story.

This singular aspect may have not been as much of a flaw as it has been for me, hell for whatever reason one has it may not have been a flaw at all for some as well. But the lack of this character’s development believability ruined what could’ve been a masterpiece for me as well. A shame really, but overall , no one should miss out on this series because of this, and will always be an easy recommendation coming from my mouth anytime somebody needs something that fits.

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Kang Yoon Hee's character

Kang Yoon Hee is a actual bitch & whore. All she knows to how to get fucked up/sex (have an affair) with Do Joon Young. And when Kang Yoon Hee found out that Park Dong Hoon knows about her affair & Do Joon Young will not going to marry her, she acted liked a complete fucked up bitch/whore. She felt guilty that Do Joon Young will not going to marry her. She didn't felt any guilt towards her husband (Park Dong Hoon) and her son. She is a real life slut and a bitch.

Park Dong Hoon seems like a genuine guy who needs lots of love & for him, family comes first. But this bitch went all the way around to get fucked up with his junior. And she also wanted to get Park Dong Hoon fired from that company.

Seriously, she is a actual whore. Fuck her.

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Al principio no quería verlo, me parecía melodrama tedioso y menos con IU; pero una amiga me insistió tanto que la empecé.
Debo decir que es una historia adictiva, pero extremadamente pesada, te absorbe toda la energía, fui incapaz de hacer maratón, a lo máximo veía dos capítulos al día, mi cerebro no daba para más.
Cuando avanzas te das cuenta que no es una historia, son varias historias, contadas desde ángulos diferentes, pero que buscan un solo objetivo: mostrarte que todo tiene solución y que lo que crees ha sido lo mejor, estás fuera de la realidad. Muchas veces te has quedado en la zona de confort y no avanzas, te sientes cómodo y no luchas por salir del hoyo en que has caído, hasta en muchas ocasiones no te das cuenta de la gente maravillosa que puedes conocer o que tienes a tu lado.
El personaje de IU es magnifico, solo vino a sonreír al final del drama, pero me enseño mucho; Ji Ah me enseño que ante las adversidades no hay nada mejor que enfrentarlas sin importar los resultados, en defender lo que quiero y que no deje de soñar.
Los demás personajes, enseñan que nunca es tarde para vivir el sueño, para arriesgarse y salir de ese confort, y que el pasado con sus buenos y malos ratos, siempre dejará lecciones que valoraremos más adelante.
En resumen, este es un drama que aunque no sea apto para todos, si necesitamos verlo, porque no tiene nada de fantasía, son historias reales representadas por excelentes actores, incluida IU.

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Come back to reality of hell

Man! how to describe this one. You can see the every normal middle aged Asian man life which consists of up & down. It was relate to the core that I was watched this drama one sitting. IU and ML was like a ocean that taking everything throw it to them. ML was lonely and feel empty inside. He was tried so hard to keep the family. Please accept the fact that you can have 1000 reasons to hate and fight to your husband but it was not justified that you can start the affair. Cheating will lead to hell and kill the person that you most liked. ML wife was not aware of that ML loved her so much and stood her. Yet she asked why ML was stick together not because he didn't loved her. IU told her that if you know someone always asking you if you need anything when come to home means he was love you the most. It was bring you the roller-coaster feelings from your inside.

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A very moving story about two lost souls

I'm so emotional after the last episode 😭😭

What I liked:
- IU's performance. I love love love Ji An's story. It's basically similar to Ash from Banana Fish - someone good growing up in a horrible situation, having to do soul-crushing things to survive, becoming ground down and hardened, but coming to life when someone is kind and warm to them and seeing that life can have good things too and finally learning what it means to be alive and human. What a great analogy for childhood trauma. So many moving and scenes lines from Ji An/IU 😭😭 I really loved her arc
- Male lead, played by Lee Sun Kyun, was great too
- I love the theme of community and family, I loved the music, I loved the directing - very stylish - and I really liked all the side characters
- Lee Ji Ah's character is someone I didn't think I would like but her arc was really 😭
- refreshing that a life drama doesn't have romance as its center point

What I didn't like:
- pace was very slow for someone like me who is easily bored and imaptient. I had to put this show on fast forward and skip scenes sometimes. The last episode had so many emotional punches; I wish the writer had kind of paced them throughout the entire series, coz most of the series is REALLY slow
- some of the sideplots were kind of uninteresting, I didn't really care about them and their inclusion felt abrupt (especially the monk)
- there were some themes that I felt like the drama didn't portray so well, the biggest of which was Lee Ji Ah's character, Kang Yoon Hee. I did not like how marriage was portrayed, I did not like the way they treated her character when it came to the affair

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Slow and Gentle, that became Meandering.

At its best, show was heartwarming, emotional and a think piece on the impact of the consistent everyday kindness on even the most hopeless and that was when I loved it best. For the first 11-13 episodes, I enjoyed what I was given though sometimes I just wanted it to move. They started miserable and a bit pitiful and they ended better??

Spoilers below!!!
Honestly I don't think the end was satisfying.
What happened with PDH and his wife? Are they still together? Is there hope? Is it over??
What happened with eldest brother and his wife? Do we just assume he will pay the loan and it's all good??
Why is mom always apologizing and sorry to PDH's wife like she has it rough for being a working helping wife? Old school mindset?
Spoilers ended!!!

I don't think I liked any character in the show. Maybe just the youngest brother, he was straightforward and refreshing in a show I felt many had the same note.
At its worst, it stretched beyond what was needed, almost too much crying and I just wanted to see it end.
Maybe I watched it at the wrong moment because I really like the slice of life without romance genre very much. I'd saved it since 2021 after hearing amazing things about it and I think I can see how it's so beloved but at the time I watched it, by ep 13, I started working while it ran in the background and didn't care to see what I'd missed cos it just felt repetitive and dragged..

Sometimes I really liked it but I never loved it.

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WOAH JUST ...WOAH

today i finally finished my mister kdrama and i….i have so many things to say about this one. first of all i got this recommended by a tiktoker, the person first said ‘this kdrama changed the way i live’ that might’ve been a little exaggerated but honestly …i did not expect it to have this much of an impact on me. i don’t speak about kdramas like this often but you could’ve probably guessed by the ones i do post that i watch romantic based dramas mostly. and dramas like my mister which don’t contain romance at all aren’t usually up my taste because i don’t like serious stuff— especially when they leave an impact on me. what i mean by that is basically they leave me with a feeling i can’t explain. i feel this way when a movie or a tv show ends in a sort of happy way but im not satisfied with it but i can’t do anything about it…and that’s how it felt with this kdrama. i’ve cried so much watching it, and i don’t cry that much when i watch shows or movies. at first my perspective on the show was romanticised, which is something i despise about my brain. why do i always have to make everything romantic?…but watching it further and getting attached to characters and realising that the point in this story wasn’t romance but the connection you make with a person. whether it be platonic or not, which was the case in here. i wanted both of the main leads to end up together which is actually a really bad idea cus of the age gap😭 but when you grow further into the story i realised just how much of an impact a non romantic ship can have on me…which has never happened before. i’m not sure what to call the main leads’ dynamic. maybe father daughter duo? but that sounds kinda fucked because the girl liked him…so i’ll just stick with soulmates. because— AGGHH i can’t explain why, you just have to watch. they care for each other so deeply when no one else did, and though there was love which was one sided- the story wasn’t focused on that. it was focused on their support for one another and how even though there was something unreciprocated separating them, they couldn’t just let go of one another like that. idk…sorry for the rant- i just really love this kdrama..yup

i feel like at start i shipped donghoon and jian as well but they’re so much more better when they grew as close friends. there’s many people saying they would’ve appreciated a ‘kiss’ or a real hug but wouldn’t have that just ruined everything? i get that donghoons wife cheated on him which is a big part of why i ended up shipping him with jian in the first place (she treated him mmuuuuuch better) but from donghoons perspective that would just be out of character and just…wrong. he has a kid he needs to still raise, making him fall in love with a 20 year old just because she showed kindness to him at his worst stage would make his character very different in my opinion. donghoon knew jian liked him but he never let that ruin what they had, and i loved that. he drew a line between them and understood that this was just a pitiful soul just like him who seeked comfort and that happened to be him ..and he seeked comfort in jian as well. thats what made this story so compelling to watch. they loved each other so much, and i truly believe donghoon might even love jian more than his own wife (which is understandable). i feel like i could rant about this kdrama forever holy fuck😭😭😭

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Full immersion required, not for light viewing

I've been holding back from reviewing this show, my ultimate favorite drama. I feel like I'm not eloquent enough to convey the essence of the show as I would like to. But alas, I think it's time to give it a try. This show deserves at least this much love from me.

My Mister takes you on the familiar road of the mundane, daily worklife in the city; of struggling to make ends meet; of under achievement in life as you grow older (at least for me lol). It is a melancholic story of two unlikely friends, finding a kindred soul with each other.

Each episode may feel slow and heavy, so definitely not for a casual following or even binge watching. I had to stop myself everytime after watching 1 or 2 episodes, feeling drained from the emotions the story has stirred in me. If the first episode doesn't at least intrigue you on how the story will unfold, then it's better to find other, lighter or brighter shows. This show needs your full attention, or none at all. If you go in half hearted, you only set yourself up for disappointment.

As the story unfolds and we discover our main leads' motivations, we also become familiar with a wealth of supporting characters that you either love or hate, for what they each represent to the lives of our main leads. Many support cast get a bit of focus too, adding layers to the story as a whole. I could only peel some of these layers upon rewatching, appreciating alot of nuance I've missed the first time around.

One example (minor SPOILER) would be the twisted dynamic between the loanshark son and our female lead. Lee Ji An's friend asked why she let the son beat her like that, when she would normally not let anyone mess with her. The show won't tell you the answer, but it's one you would naturally arrive to after putting all the clues together. You'll have to watch the show to find out the answer lol. I love that the showrunners trust the viewers to get it, even though I missed it the first time because I'm dull.

Besides the wonderful cast and a richly layered story, the OST is on point in capturing the scenes' mood and emotions. This is such a poignant drama for me that I always tear up when I see people talk about it or even just hearing the theme song. I hope I was able to convey my love for this show despite being so vague in what I wrote. I wanted to set the right expectation before you dive in into this immersive but demanding experience. Cheers!

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Natural 10

My Mister... It's not easy to express how good this masterpiece is. Just WATCH IT.
It is, by far, the best k-drama I have ever watched.
Every character has its own consistent arc. And those arcs interact in such a beautiful way that, little by little, well, a magnificent show unfolds.
The actors, too, obviously know this is no ordinary drama : chemistry abounds. The soundtrack is almost too memorable. The photography is mesmerizing. Every frame is beautiful.
The direction is brilliantly ambitious. With slow, long, scenes. Close-ups. Banal humiliations. Every-day frustrations. All turned, by some kind of magic, into the most moving piece of work I can remember.

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A KDrama that stays with you

I've only watched kdramas for the last few months but most of them are entirely forgettable, even when very enjoyable. My Mister is the rare exception. Dark and achingly poignant, well-acted and respectful of the complexity of being human. It was so good I signed up for this site purely to leave a review.

I found many of the characters--particularly Dong Hoon's family--unbearable at the beginning, but as the show went on, it stopped feeling like caricature and began to feel like the way that family feels sometimes; alternately rewarding and infuriating. What I loved the most is that at the end of the show, they were still doing those obnoxious things, yet I found myself fond of them and willing to overlook their idiosyncrasies. That's a magical thing to convey in a TV show.

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the best drama ever

it's been a while since i saw this and by each passing day i get surer of the fact that no piece of media will ever come close to what my mister has achieved. human emotions are captured so raw in this, and so beautifully too that i could relate with evey single character and their story. deep within i am a monk who wants to give up on materialistic ways of life to stop the competition unfolding around me and i am a disappointed underachiever who is afraid of my potential, or lack of it. i am a lonely woman hung up on her true love and so am i the girl who grew up hating herself. and maybe I won't have a park donghoon to make me see that the world is nothing if I won't let it get to me, but this drama keeps giving me life lessons i want to hear from someone when i have a bad day

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