i am a new viewer to Korean culture. My perspective is limited to what is translated, be it books, news, songs, dramas. When i started watching this show, i was totally lost but, it was so different from the dramas that know where they are going, happy or sad. So, i had to watch the episodes over and over, rewind, and make notes, but, it was so fascinating to me because i was able to be aware of all the emotional (non verbal) dynamics more. Isn't that why we go to watch sports, nobody knows how it will end. i find it especially interesting to see how the hearts and minds are pulled in different directions. It may seem that the shows pull and push format may be mean but, after 50 years of married reality, i know, the sooner you learn how little control you have, that you only get to accept or reject the other, because you can only change yourself, then the better the chance, for whatever you decide happiness is, to find it, find some harmony. And, i find the four commentators hilarious in their naivete. If they used "experts" that would ruin it.