I'm Serious About Dating (2023)

Pretty good.

Once you get past the first episode things get going. What I liked about it: it's short on tropes. These aren't perfect characters that are the same from beginning to end, always show up at the right time, and always know the dashing and cool thing to say. They are flawed, hesitant, take one step forward then two steps back. They don't have it all figured out, even by the end. They're just trying to get through life, love and heartache like the rest of us.

Don't worry though, it's a still very much a kdrama, with the stuff we all love to see when we watch them.

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AAAAAAAAAAAAA

if bora and su hyeok wont end up together i'll never ever watch kdramas againnnnnn. (i hate ju-wan he doesnt deserve bora at all also hes ugly -_____- cheater BASTARD!!!!!!!!)

OMGGGG happiest ending everrrr!!!!! i literally cried my eyes out bc i thought bora would choose her ex but the first time in my life im actually happy that i was wrongggggggggggggg T . T best k drama eveeeerr 100000000% recommend.
i was waiting so long and finally last 2 episodes were out. i was convinced that it would have a bad ending because this k drama was such a mess. a man can look at you straight in the eyes, tell you how much he loves you and how he wants to marry you and then cheat on you the whole time??? and he begged bora to start over everything together just to find out that he still was with da-mi? he still dared to have an affair with her? i hate himmmmm i prefer su hyeok who cant express his feelings by words but actions than that pathetic loser whos only just talk and nothing more.

overall this kdrama is great and i suggest everyone to watch it.

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the exact reason why I started watching kdramas in the first place.

such a beautiful healing drama. very therapeutic. if you're going through a rough patch in life, doesn't have to be a break up, can be anything like failure or some other personal grief, watch this. love the male lead and and the female lead. well written characters. absolutely love the fl's sister and the assistant in the ml's office such wholesome characters. also this drama has what i look for in kdramas. my first kdrama was age of youth, a very lovely slice of life, healing drama, very raw and relatable. bora deborah has that exact thing, that raw, healing element. the characters are natural and kind too. 10/10 recommend

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True BS

OK, now I'm angry!
Utilising the memory of the Holocaust to justify vanity, pettiness and revenge is simply inconceivable. This is especially gross now that we're witnessing another holocaust, and constantly see men, women and children starved to death with no access to anything, not even rainwater. I know this was written before what we're witnessing in Palestine, but it still wouldn't sit well with me before, anyway.
I can't even finish this drama now. I already had my doubts this was going somewhere once Trump was cited as a "successful businessman" (the man is a fascist war criminal, as are most US presidents), but this usage of a Holocaust reality is beyond tone-deaf. She's comparing basic hygiene and dignity in an oppressive situation to dolling up to get a man so she gets revenge or doesn't stay single, as if being single is worse than being a victim of genocide.
Equating being single to something you need to survive as if a holocaust is ignorant, ridiculous and infuriating. I thought that at some point the story would turn around and show some sort of redemption but that's just how the writer and everyone involved in this drama see people. After this, there's no possible redemption. I'm trying very hard not to insult anyone right now. I know the team has apologised for the insensitive use of the holocaust but I don't accept the apology. The rest of the drama I've watched so far tells me it's not an incident, it's a default. I don't think I have rated a drama so low but this is just how angry I am.

I don't see love anywhere in this drama. I see grift, ridiculousness, over-the-top unnecessary drama and a whole lot of cringe. They even go as far as simulating a suicide as if it's some kind of joke! ffs
She never loved her boyfriend, she wanted a marriage, a status and she was manipulating her way into it and teaching everyone around her how to manipulate their relationships. She did see through people who had no connection to her but was incapable of minor self-reflection. That being said, it's not her fault that her boyfriend cheated on her and remained in a relationship he no longer wanted. Her whole grift isn't about love, it's about fulfilling an image inside a box society carves for women at the expense of their own self.
Everyone here seems to be an a-hole and they don't learn from their mistakes.

Bora's actions after the break-up are completely out of character and make no sense as a 30 yo with a solid career. Making her go through this drama and destroy her whole career, image and finances to justify working for people who have badmouthed her is basic. All because of an a-hole she didn't even love and who cheated on her?! The worst part is that she doesn't even learn anything from her mistakes and doubles down on the bad takes, manipulation and petty drama. The ML has seen her at her worst and helped her, he picked her up when she made a fool of herself in front of her ex. Why should she be ashamed of peeing on the street, when he didn't even see her do it, to the point of refusing to meet him, talk to him and even faking an illness? It makes absolutely no sense.

Instead of learning from that, she then doubles down when it comes to the kiss. It's so pathetic that it gets too uncomfortable to watch. The kiss had no chemistry. It looked like it was made to make the FL look like a beautiful statue more than anything.

The other relationships portrayed are no better. Her friend finds out her husband doesn't see her as a woman and doesn't even want to have sex with her and she accepts it as if it's normal. There's not even a level of companionship, they're roommates and that's it. That's not a marriage. They're not honest with each other, don't spend time alone, don't like each other's presence. It's as if she proposed because it's the next thing to do and he accepted because that's the way it is. If feel like someone made them get married and they didn't want to. It also plays the stereotype that married couples hate each other. Just get a fcking divorce and go be happy on your own!
She works, she should have her own money, even if she is married. Why does she have to make such a fuss about buying a bag? Why should she want to buy such an expensive bag? Bags aren't a form of investment, they're accessories and should be treated as such. I don't understand this type of consumerism. It makes no sense. Her husband has a "man cave" that is completely hidden from his wife. He's not even doing anything "illegal" there. He just wants to escape and be alone (meaning without her). Why are they even married? Because society says so? Because that's the path everyone has to take? Is it really? Is that really a life?

Her sister's relationship is no better. She's involved with a guy who only saw her once and is infatuated with her, saying he loves her when he doesn't even know her. Instead of trying to get to know her, he drills her with catchphrases and accepts all the bullying he gets from her. It's normal to be infatuated with someone, it's not normal to treat that as love. I know they're young but that's no excuse.

Insinuating a relationship between a man in his 40s or 50s and basically a baby! that girl is a baby! is so extremely problematic. She's not going to fix his commitment and communication issues. She's not the solution to a man baby. She should be living her life and meeting people who are in the same stage in life as she is and not putting herself in a relationship with such obvious power dynamics that won't work in her favour. Besides being as old as her father, he's her boss. No good thing can come from that relationship. Deciding to make her the pursuer in this relationship is also a choice since most women in their late teens and 20s are the ones who are typically approached by men in their 40s, 50s and beyond because they want someone whom they can control and won't demand accountability for their actions or lack thereof.

Anyway, I'm not watching any more of this. I'm not wasting my time on people who have nothing of importance to say. And it's not even fun. It's annoying and over-the-top cringe.
Of course, not every drama needs to cater to the same audience, but they need to abide by basic human decency and that means not demeaning important events and treating people as equal human beings. That's just basic.

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nevrotic love stories

some people might say this is a realistic love story, and every side story couple stages a love story at different stages, whatever... sorry but bloody breaks up are not on my schedule and have never been. being shabby, petty and harsh in your relationship is also not on my plan. of course this does exist, I know, I saw this around me, but this is bad. this is bad behavior, not realistic one. and I don't watch dramas for (shabby) realistic stories. I can watch them around me. I really didn't appreciate this drama and I wouldn't recommend.
if you want to be bored, annoyed and pissed, be my guest and go on. every character is petty and boring. I'd choose non of them as a friend or as a partner. so it's very difficult for me to just stand them for as long as 4 episodes. I am dropping.

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A clever series imbedded with interesting references

This series is utterly captivating, relatable and true to its theme! It’s all about love, including ups and downs, as well as the awkward and sometimes humiliating breakup arguments. You can see all that through four distinct couples at different relationship stages. It’s not just another rom-com, its written in a very smart way where it's full with references to books, people, shows and characters and that what make the show really enjoyable.
When you watch it, you find yourself giggling and cringing on behalf of the characters, where you smile and feel touched by the situations and scenes. The characters and their storylines are very relatable, as we all recognize that clingy friend who couldn’t get over her ex because they didn’t have a proper closure.
Everyone is the protagonist of their own love story. A lot of these protagonists think that they’re true to their love and they’re the ones who’s making all the sacrifices just because there is a lack of communication in their relationship. This series is a breath of fresh air, everything about it is lovable, and every scene holds a meaning and one can resonate with it.

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An unexpected gem

I found out about this series after watching a video on least popular K dramas this year. For some reason, this drama did not have very high ratings in Korea, even though there are popular actors in it. Whatever the reason, maybe something more popular opposite it, it still sounded interesting. So I took the chance and glad I did. It is a romcom with a twist, not following the typical storyline.

What I liked: the storyline was unique. Instead of the usual, meet cute, breaking up over trivia and reuniting, this followed the aftermath of a soul crushing breakup. The writing was a cut above a typical drama, realistic, at times heartbreaking, and other times amusing. I enjoyed the leads, both did a good job. The ending was positive, but not all tied up with a bow. We saw the growth of the various characters and the possibility for more growth. The pacing was also quite good; it didn’t drag out with unnecessary fillers.

What I didn’t like: I think there was at least one too many side stories. A workplace romance was just wrong, the chemistry wasn’t there, and it felt inappropriate. There was an extraordinary amount of drunkenness in this drama, more than usual, and was often used as a catalyst for people to overcome communication problems. Drinking appears often in K dramas, but this one seemed to go overboard. It’s one of the reasons I couldn’t give it a full 10.

My favorite type of entertainment is something that can distract you, and in the case of a romcom, make you feel good, but at the same time give you something to think about. This drama filled the bill for me.

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Didn't like the characters

Yoo In ah's worst show I have seen so far and I really like Yoo In Ah. This is a show about totally self absorbed drama queens who think their lives are hard when they do nothing but dote on themselves. In addition, they are surrounded by spineless men who can't seem to understand anything about marriage, responsibility and leadership.

I had a hard time finishing this show because the characters portrayed were so amazingly shallow. Still the acting was good it was just a really dumb story. I know it was a fictional story but I can't but wonder if some of the portrayed values are the reason people don't have babies in SK anymore.

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Wow!

This is exactly what the heart needs and wants.

The story flows perfectly. Everything is explained and everything is earned. It has a beautiful message, actually many.
The chemistry between all of the couple, whether it’s a breakup, falling in love, or maintaining love and friendship, is relatable and brilliantly done. The entire cast and crew must have really loved working with each other, because it was a pure pleasure to watch.

Not every moment is a happy one, but the moment that are meant to rip your heart out do.

This drama is worth every moment to watch and rewatch. Watch it once for the entertainment. Watch it again for the lessons.

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Realistic and fun!!

The story basically revolves around the love life of a dating coach and writer, yeon bo ra aka deborah...after having a rough breakup with her BF whom she wanted to get married to she met the ML lee su hyeok.
Bo Ra - she was the best character in the drama for me! the actress did a great job in portraying a realistic and complex character like bo ra...she wanted to have the perfect happy ending at first but through experience she matured and understood what really matters is what u believe in and if u want to do something just go for it...although in the first 3-4 episodes u might not like her for not following her own advice and begging for love...but later on she knew what she actually wanted n was confident all the way! n u have to agree most of her advises on relationship were logical and true...

Lee su hyeok - he was kind, generous and fun but he really didnt know how to express his feelings...i found him annoying at some points but overall he was nice and a good match for bo ra...he comforted her when she was down and was great as a friend...

Ju wan - he was FL's ex-bf and just one word for him - TRASH which he accepted himself too!

Yu-ri - she didnt have much role but still contributed to the story...she was neither a good person nor a bad one and got the ending she deserved !

yu jeong and jin woo - this couple portrayed the problems of married life so well! they were excellent friends to everyone around them and were cheerful and loving...

sang jin and his ex-wife and bang u ri - the ex-wife was a kind soul and an overbearing boss...loved her! sang jin was a great friend but i didnt like his way of dealing with relationships ...u-ri was the sweetest girl of all...she was innocent and loving but kind of unrealistic ..

bo mi and jin ho - a first i thought bo mi was a spoiled girl but she turned out to be soft hearted...they were a cute couple..

all the characters had their own flaws and plus points...this made the drama even more exciting !!!
overall - it was a perfect mix of life, career, relationships , friendships and love!!

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