Hello, Mom (2020)

I was initially so so reluctant to start it.It wont be a happy one,the title literally says "hi bye mama" And I got spoiled for ending.I read all the comments and all of it was about the drama being a tearjerker.

Finally I gave it a try, And I havent watched any other drama that made me cry this much, every episode. This broke my heart to pieces and put them back to break it again. But I do not regret it one bit. This was one of the most beautiful drama therein.

The entire story of her love for the child was so much ,I wonder if any love story can ever even come close to a mother's love.

Yu ri had such a hard time,being a ghost and not able to take care of seo woo,watching her family breakdown and mourn her. She watched them trying cope up,failing, her husband slowly fall in love. And all of it silently,with no one knowing of her existence. All the characters cry in this drama and I cried along with them every time.
Her friendship with Hyeong jeong was so lovely.
And finally her husband was flawed. Initially I was so angry at him for remarrying but like yuri , I Couldn't hate min jeong because she was so good to seo woo and a nice person.All of them were too good,I couldnt even try to blame any of them.
Seo woo was too adorable, every time she smiled she took my heart.And I came to know its a cute boy who played the role of girl in this drama.How adorable!

Best of all, yu-ri's mom and yuri together was so heartwarming. I loved the writer's earlier drama 'Go back couple',especially the mother-daughter scene.This drama took it up a notch and made it too beautiful and sad.And yuri always seeing her daughter while her mom has always been seeing yuri made me wonder about my mom too. What an arc! -Mother's love brought her child.

And the acting was too good. Kim tae hee as yu-ri was so real and beautiful soul. All others characters also acted well, I liked her best friend and mom the most.

And finally, this drama taught me a lot of things. To cherish life more, to be happy and tobmake people happy. In the end we all arent going to live forever, how many of us going to be mourned like yu-ri then?

I'll always come back to this drama on a bad day, sad day, just to see their story and maybe shed some tears or two.

" A woman who lost her husband is a Widow,
A man who lost his wife is a widower,
A kid who lost his parents is orphan,
But there is no word for a parent who lost their
kid, know why?
Because no word can describe it. No word can
describe the excruciating pain."

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Ah...
What could be expected of the title "Hi, Bye, Mama" other than saying hello only to say goodbye again.
It was a truly emotive and beautiful drama.
Although their tears streamed a lot, there were moments which felt much more raw and fresh and real. Those moments really sold this drama for me.
The humour, although minimal, was a great touch. The characters, although flawed, were perfectly imperfect. The story, although incredibly bittersweet, was purely brilliant.
So, as I said hello to this drama...
It is now time to say goodbye.
Goodbye, Hi Bye Mama.
Thanks for being an amazing drama.
Now, it's time to say hello to what comes next~

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Everything about this show was perfect

'Hi, Bye Mama' to me was perfect in everyway, I found no faults with the drama. The whole premise of a mother dying for her baby then coming back to life 5 years later for 49 is very intresting but sad. This is the first show to where I can fully say I did not dislike a single character in the whole show. Normally I would dislike one of the leads in dramas due to the way they are put in the story but with this, instead of disliking them I loved them instead. I would normally not like Min Jeong because she'd be a threat to Yu Ri for getting back with Gang Hwa but instead she was the most graceful person here.

First off with Yu Ri, I couldn't feel anything but sorry for her. She died protecting Seo Woo and then lived as a ghost for 5 years watching over Gang Hwa and Seo Woo to make sure they were okay and what was heartbreaking was when anything bad was happening to them she couldn't do anything but watch because she cant talk nor touch them so she would just suffer while watching them. The whole 49 judgement days were quite cruel because halfway through I realised that it was judging her on wether she would be selfless or selfish and she was probably the most selfless person In the show, every action she did was for someone else and she wasn't greedy in the slightest. Her relationship with Seo Woo was really fun to watch but also heartbreaking aswell, in the 49 days she had Seo Woo didn't know she was her Mom and never called her Mom once so that mustv'e broke her heart everytime. When Yu Ri was saying goodbye to Seo Woo and Seo Woo said 'Goodbye Mom' that was the most saddest moment in the show because that was the first and last time she would hear the words 'Mom' from Seo Woo and it breaks my heart. Yu Ri literally makes us queation ourselves because in the fact that If we left now and came back for 49 days, would we do what she did and be selfless because I know for a fact 75% would be greedy and live thier life like they want to.

Gang Hwa character really hurts to watch at times because he went through 13 years of being with Yu Ri thinking he would grow old with her watching Seo Woo get married and live her life but instead in the blink of an eye his world gets torn down by the sudden death of his Wife. When he met Min Jeong and his time started to start again, he finally picked himself back up but in the back of his head when he was happy with her and every positive emotion he felt, he would be hit with a pang of guilt reminding himself of Yu Ri and he would feel terrible. His relationship with both Yu Ri and Min Jeong are both beautiful in thier own way and are both the lights in which make him feel better again. At the end of the show when he had to accept that Yu Ri is going to die again, you can clearly see that the time in which stopped 5 years ago has actually started again and whenever he thought of Yu Ri he would have a smile on his face.

Min Jeong in my opinion is such an amazing character, evrn though she didn't know Yu Ri was Seo Woo's mom she treated her like a best friend and was glad to have met her. When she found out that Seo Woo's mom has been her friend for a while and it was Yu Ri I have no possible idea how she must of felt when she cried. She loved Seo Woo even though that she didn't give birth to her but despite that she did. She was consistantly very caring and kind throughout the whole show and we never saw a bad side of her. Min Jeong was a main character but was a secondary main and normally I don't like them at first and they get redeemed later on but not once did I not like her, her relationship with Yu Ri was beautiful and after she Yu Ri died again she probably cherished those moments and loved Seo Woo and Gang Hwa even more so Yu Ri didn't have to worry about them.

Just quickly with Seo Woo, I'm going to guess that she got told that the pretty aunt that she was with when she was five was her birth mother as at the end we see that she kept the picture of her and her dad inside the book so that she wouldn't forget her. She probably considers both Yu Ri and Min Jeong as her moms and will cherish them both,

I want to quickly talk about the ghosts. Even though they were not main characters, whenever they had a story to tell I cried for them which is unlike me because I normally only care about the main but the way they told the story of the ghosts and treated them as indivuals with thier own story was amazing. Especially that kid at the start who was the cause of Seo Woo going into the freezer, that kids story had me crying more than any main lead I have cried to which showed just how much thish show cared for its casts.

The OST was just perfect for this show, I liked how they didn't overuse them and used just the right ones for the right moment so the scene would feel more special and that was probably one of the reasons why I cried so much during my time watching this drama.

Overall this drama was just amazing, If your looking for a Romantic Comedy then this is not teh show for you, This show is more a show of healing and shows us what someone would do if they died unfairly and had 49 days to live left. If your looking for a show where you want to like whole cast and love the story without feeling empty at the ending I whole heartedly wish you would watch this show and give it a try.

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A perfect K-drama for those in the process of dealing with death

I began watching this K-drama about a month or so after my best friend passed away. Seeing the way the different characters dealt with the main character's death, and the lack of closure they got tearing them and their families apart, was something that hit home deeply to me. And as such, I couldn't help but cry my eyes out at many scenes of this K-drama - because all of the emotions that the actors flawlessly portrayed were the same ones I had only just recently experienced.

Watching "Hi Bye, Mama!" was like a rewind for me - but a needed one at that, as I definitely still had some tears that needed to come out. At it's best, HBM is a touching story about various families' journey into finally accepting the death of a loved one, and getting the closure they desire. It doesn't try to have a perfect, happy story. It has its ups and downs, and, despite not claiming so, has some of the funniest scenes I've seen in any K-drama all thanks to the vastly different personalities each character has, regardless of the genuinely great chemistry the actors have with each other.

A definite recommend for those who have dealt with death in the past, and those who want to understand what death of a loved one can do to those close to them.

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Phew! I was so emotionally wrecked by the outcome of this drama that I had to immediately start a rebound drama (Oh My Venus [2015-16]) to balm my aching heart and eyes. And I couldn't face the prospect of talking about it at length for the past 3 weeks? So if you're wondering if it's worth your time-look no farther!

The story is simple enough, a mother who died and became a ghost is given the opportunity to take her place back in her previous life in 49 days or "go up" to reincarnate. From the silly trailer and pretty pastel posters, you'd think this is a light and easy show to watch. Well, you're wrong. The first episode had me crying, as did every episode from thereon. I liked the story because it was in no way basic or lacking and showcased the ways grief and trauma surrounding the loss of a loved one can manifest.

I've heard of Kim Tae Hee before because it's Kim Tae Hee! Who doesn't know her? However, this was the first drama I watched with her in it and it's safe to say I'm now a fan of her! KTH's portrayal of a mother who was never able to hold her daughter or ease her family's pain moved me so much it brought physical pain. The story itself is pretty farfetched with someone coming back to life, but the sorrow was very real and I felt for everyone. Everyone had sad shit going on and it was just a rollercoaster of emotions. I had a ton of other favorite characters, but I'd just be listing everyone so I won't do that, but know that the casting for this was solid! I went in not knowing any of the cast but it didn't make a difference in my experience.

I also loved how there were plenty of positive female friendships throughout the show. There were old-time best friends and even people who most dramas would make into enemies simply due to circumstances ended up being great pals. I think it's a great message. Not all women in dramas need to be at odds with each other. Give us women uplifting each other. Supporting each other when they're breaking down. Ready to fight anyone messing with your bestie. This show gave all of the above when it comes to strong female relationships. I also love that we have a supporting character who isn't thin, but that isn't poked fun at or diminish how anyone sees her. Also, her eyeliner was POPPING through everything and Ms. Midong ddae was THAT girl.

To be honest, I didn't pay a lot of attention to the music because the stuff going on was just that engrossing. But when I was paying attention, the tracks are all something that could be played in a cafe. But hearing them over scenes of people being sad as hell, it really hit the nail on the head. My favorite track is To You by Hen.

In conclusion, if you repress your emotions like me and have to watch external media to get yourself crying, this is the drama for you! I don't know if I would rewatch it because it's just really sad and melodramatic. Though I do appreciate how beautiful of a drama it is and will recommend it to friends.

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I've Given 48 Hours to This Series

It didn't dawn on me until I finished watching this 16 episode series for the third time, that I'd given it 48 hours of my life. I'd be hard pressed to say what elements I enjoyed most. The acting was good on the part of all of the cast. While there were some subplots that could have been handled more thoroughly, it didn't detract from what the story was trying to say. I read a review, elsewhere, that was less than glowing because they didn't like how the exorcist plot was abruptly ended without conclusion and another that mentioned Yu-Ri's baby belly moving about in several of the flashback scenes. I'll agree those things could have been handled better but, again, they never took away from the overall story being told.

All-in-all, every time I've watched this, I've wanted to immediately turn around and watch it again. It's moving. It's heartfelt. It will make you burn through boxes of tissue as you cry your eyes out. I absolutely love this show. Seo-Woo is adorable and I don't care that they used a little boy to play a little girl. My two favorite scenes will always be when Yu-Ri realizes Seo-Woo can see her in her ghost form and when Yu-Ri realizes she's not a ghost any more. I can watch those moments over and over, and never get tired of feeling the emotions it brings out.

Wonderful Series!

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All stepmoms in fairy tales are evil. Stepmoms are moms too.

Hi bye mama is the story of the aftermath of a loved ones death and acceptance of ones fate and finding closure and moving on I was touched by this story on personal level and I found comfort in believing my loved ones are watching over me and giving me strength every step of the way i also really loved how well the characters were developed and the amount of maturity this show has is superb also the side stories were good but not to the point where they could stand on their own two feet and i really didnt like this cuz i honestly enjoy deep side stories and its not like the show didnt have enough episodesand time to do that which brings me to my second point that this show is the perfect example of a show that should have been a movie cuz i honestly i was bored out of my mind watchingthe characters cry over the same issues for five episodes straight and having the same flashbacks over and over over again the show was good but could ve been better but that doesnt mean i didnt bawl my eyes out overall its a good show but doesnt have rewatch value in my opinion

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Amazing beginning/middle, 'Meh' ending

I really loved how it began and as the show progressed I started to get very attached to each characters individual stories that were being developed but as the show was coming to an end side stories that were big parts of the episodes were randomly ended or simply dissapeared and were left completely unanswered which I personally hated alot lol overall I still think it's a nice show with the important message about the importance of taking advantage of every moment you're alive and with loved ones since you never know when one may pass away. Many comments say they didnt like all the crying but idk I think it was appropriate since the theme of the story is death of loved ones and missing them... and let me say I absolutely loved the acting, each actor was able to capture that emotional pain that I dont think many are able to capture that well and just in general amazing acting.
Now, I wouldnt rewatch it, mainly because of those unanswered side stories, but I still recommend giving it a try to see what you think :)

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Best of the Best !

I came to this drama not knowing what to expect . The title did not inspire me , but I am so please I watched it . I enjoyed it thoroughly , the story , the acting , the development . As a fan of the Korean Drama -Tomorrow - I am always interested in stories of the After Life and karma . And this has all of it presented in a subtle and compelling story . It is moving , endearing , funny at times, thought provoking for sure , and comforting . When we say to our loved ones " Rest in Peace " how convinced are we that they will rest in Peace ? I am glad Cha Yu-ri went back after her 49 days on earth , I am pleased she managed to say a proper Goodbye to her family and friends and her beloved daughter , the daughter who has grown into a lovely student in the mist of her loving family . Brilliant !

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This drama is one of the best I’ve seen In a while. Everything about it was just spectacular, the storyline the characters the script the cinematography. I especially was impressed by the actors and actresses they were all amazing, especially the actor that plays Seo-woo. I would 100% recommend this drama to anyone who hasn’t watched it. WARNING: you will cry a lot. I cried every episode of this drama

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Sacrifice as theme was played beautifully

Kdramas in 2020 never fail to amaze me. I've been holding out this one for long since I heard every episode will make you cry, as for me, make my heart clench. The drama is about a mother who dies before she could meet her baby but years after, she is given a chance to live as human again. Kim Tae-hee played Yu-ri well that every scene is either heart-wrenching or heart-warming. When you go through her journey of being human again - from denial to hate to acceptance - you also become wiser and go through an understanding that life will not always be riding your wave. It is the other way around. You need to live your days as if you were to say goodbyes. You need to accept that what you want does not equate to what is needed. The drama depicts sacrifice in such a wonderful way. I recommend this 100%. Get your tissues ready every episode!

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