As the title has mentioned - Find Yourself is really suitable for this cdrama storyline as for a mature and independant lady/woman really needs to know what she is seeking for in a guy either a life partner or soul partner.
This story relates on the Asian Chinese single and mature lady hence it might not be applicable to Westerners single and mature lady as both has different culture, background, education, family brought up and friendship.
At the moment I feel this is one of the best modern cdramas which I have watched so far 'coz most modern cdramas have the concept of alien bf or gf or worst time travelling. Even though this is not really that good but based on this modern society and the increase of single and mature lady, I feel this story also touches on the concern and worries of how society accepting mature lady dating or marrying a much younger guy (age gap more than 5 years).
Overall the castings in this drama managed to bring up their roles very well especially Ye Lu Ming role how he goes after He Fang Xing and let go of her after much persuasion and effort put in. I remembered a line where Ye Lu Ming told He Fang Xing - "I am a businessman who if make an investment and does not has any ROI then I have no choice but to cut off this investment". Same goes to a relationship I have walked 99 steps and you just need to walk a step towards me and if you can't do it we call it a quit. Tbh. Ye Lu Ming is a good life partner 'coz he is mature, understandable, patience and most importantly financially stability. Whereas Yuan Song is like a soul partner a person who is young, vibrate, full of energy, romantic and financially he is still ok (his father's is Ye Lu Ming good friend & business associates).
If you are He Fang Xing who would you choose - life or soul partner? If you want to know the answer to this cdrama then I strongly suggest you to watch it. Every episode is rather interesting and funny except the final episode even though it's a happy ending.
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I found myself Song Wei Long
Find Yourself is strongly recommended, coming from China I've seen a lot of cliche romances and find them a bit too sweet. Now this drama has plenty of sweet moments, but what makes it worthwhile and a payoff is the struggles the main couple has to work through.The chemistry between Song Wei Long and Victoria Song is impressive, especially with the age gap in the drama being real in their lives also. Song Wei Long is really showing off his acting well in emotional scenes, he's sweet, youthful, and is a scene stealer. The man is also very handsome which is something to recommend by itself. Victoria Song is also a really good actress, and the emotional scenes she has she delivers. She's clearly a pro and I'm glad she's in a project like this.
The conflict in the main relationship makes this show interesting. Age gaps are explored in dramas, but it's really the main focus of conflict in this one and I like that. They are at different points in their lives and many people could judge them based off of stigma/prejiduce.
It's important to add that the dynamic is one being 'naive' while the other is more realistic. But in Find Yourself Song Wei Long's character has the development to understand her struggles and at a point he looks past the gap they have because he really loves Fan Xing. I really like how Yuan Song is able to take initiative and show her that he isn't as immature as she thinks at time... talking about a specific elevator scene. I hope to see more scenes like that as Fan Xing needs sometimes to just have moments like that where Yuan Song shows her he really is a man opposed to a colleague or kid.
Overall I love the dynamic, I love the production, Song Wei Long is really hot and Victoria Song is gorgeous
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BLAST OF COMEDY AND ROMANCE ! DON'T THINK JUST WATCH IT!
i want to thank director and story writer for making such amazing drama. this drama has unique comedy and amazing casts. i really loved watching it. This is the best rom com drama to watch. I loved every single character and their acting. omg!! THINGS THAT I DID NOT LIKED IN THIS SERIES:- That this drama is quite long. it can also be amazing drama with 32-36 episodes (STILL I DIDNT REGRETED WATCHING THIS DRAMA) • And the other reason is i skiped many scenes after episode 35 (im still okay with it because of casting and acting). Hope y'all enjoy this drama too and i also hope that review would be helpful for you :))Cet avis était-il utile?
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I mostly enjoyed watching this drama. As an adult is was nice to see more mature storylines, eg. the main couple sleeping together before marriage as a normal part of the relationship. This series was a rare find in that aspect that I was actually interested also in all side couples and their storylines. The first 20 episodes were also a bit painful to watch because of the problems the main characters had in their relationship and second male lead causing trouble, so I was all the time fearfully waiting when it would backfire. However the same episodes also contained the best, very very good romantic scenes, so I wouldn’t miss them. Especially as the main lead was probably the hottest Chinese actor I’ve ever seen. The second half of the series was lighter and funnier.I was happy with the actor’s performance, though I have to say even though the main lead was perfect in romantic scenes, he was not convincing when acting drunk. I have previously seen Zhang Yujian (He Canyang’s actor) in Coup The Foudre where he was very sombre and too old for the teenage parts, and I enjoyed very much seeing him in this role. All in all I think the people in this series were not as much stereotypes as in many Chinese dramas but more versatile and real. The production was also well done, there wasn’t too much repetition or unrealistic scenes. Some scenes were really funny and even though this is not a comedy, the humour fitted it very well.
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Canyang and Minmin were a cute couple, but I wish they would have made Canyang’s feelings for Minmin more clear. Now it felt like he was with her just because she was around, in which case he could have just as well been with someone who his parents don’t oppose.
I agree with the other reviews that the ending felt a bit rushed. It would have been nice to see He Fanxing and Yuan Song get back together earlier and see some scenes with their everyday life as a couple out in the open, with parents and friends.
It was nice that the fact that Yuan Song was from a rich family was not emphasized too much, and He Fanxing said that she hadn’t thought too much about it because it didn’t matter to him. I might have liked it better id he would have been from a normal family, but maybe the writers wanted it to be all about the age gap so Yuan Song couldn’t be inferior to Ye Luming in any other way.
I was a bit confused about the girl who came in the end, Luo something. Was she sent there by Yuan Song’s parents to seduce him or was it a coincidence? The way she behaved and the way the parents kept asking about her and Yuan Song made me think it was not that simple. In the story the reason for her existence was of course to make He Fanxing jealous and to show that Yuan Song didn’t care about anyone else, but as almost every other piece in this drama fell together and was realistic, this on bothered me.
The storyline with cheating and divorce was good. What she said about not being able to forget the words he had used to ridicule her were spot on.
This was not one of my favourite dramas but it kept me hooked and I will probably watch it again at some point.
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I will write a little of my review for this drama ...honestly I don't really like the story about the main character in this drama, this drama first gives an interesting beginning story between an independent woman who gets her love with a man who is much younger than her, and yes ... it all starts with things that sweet and cute and adorable and then changed after HFX (the female lead) began to feel fear of the gossip that would befall them because she was dating and fell in love with a man who was much younger than her YS. and the worst thing happened when she had to hide to date YS and then when YS was so brave to announce their status, She instead chose to break up with him, and the most stupid thing that HFX did was She was so happy and enjoyed every moment out with SML, YLM. even admitted him as her boyfriend in front of her friends, taking pictures together. silly .... for a woman who is dating, I read a lot of people blame YLM for stealing someone else's girlfriend ... YLM is wrong but what's more wrong is HFX, she can refuse to do all that but no, she accepts it and even really enjoyed it ....
I do not like the character that is not stable for that, after breaking up then going out with YLM with the reason to try a new relationship (and should not learn self-introspection of a relationship that just broke).
and after dating YLM, even jealous when YS is close to other women ... omg ... I really can't stand this woman's attitude ... and don't even dare to break up with YLM even though she doesn't love him and deceives her own feelings as well as hurting the feelings of others .... and her attitude when trying to catch up YS instead makes me feel she is disgusting after what she did.
the happy ending between HFX and YS actually didn't make a good impression for me, because of the attitude of the female lead that I really can't accept.
I gave a rating of 7.5 for this drama because I felt the stories of other actors besides the main actors like CX and CH, HCY and CMM, and other HFX friends were even more interesting than that ...
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Still love it, even the second time around.
I watched this while it was still airing, and recently rewatched, so I thought I’d write a review while the memory is still fresh.This one is definitely one of my favourites, from main couple to side characters/stories I loved everything and everyone (or hated who should be hated).
I loved the actor choices for all characters honestly, each actor fit their character perfectly.
The story develops quite quickly which is one of the things I liked about this Drama, at the point it starts to slow down the side stories kick in to make our time worth while.
I had and still have one problem with this Drama, and that is the second male lead. The first time I watched, it was because I felt he had too much screen time, causing the main story to pause for quite a while, however, as I rewatched that part didn’t bother me too much anymore, since I didn’t have to wait an entire week only to get an episode that contains more of the second male lead than the actual lead.
However while rewatching I realised how manipulative and unhealthy he and his interactions with the female lead actually were... if that is the definition of a good/ suitable man, then there’s definitely something wrong with society.
Overall I loved how this Drama showed different types and sides of Love and relationships, good parts as well as bad parts.
Definitely watch this, it’s worth the time.
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Major romance is centered around two 32 year old twins. The female lead called fang zin and her twin brother cang yang both falling in love with younger lovers with over 10 year age and how they were able to make the love work despite the the societal pressure from friends , family, neighbors and colleagues.
The male lead was obviously very young and because he looked really young his love for the female lead looked more like a lingering crush, although he did well with romance and skin-ship scenes, they were able to obviously portray that they preferred romance was with him and not luming which is why most viewers will concede to song yuan, however Luming was Obviously realistically capable and older.
The female lead was a bit lacking in character portrayal , she was meant to be an extremely efficient business administrator and acted in that capacity at work, but her trying to speak like she is an idiot in the name of acting cute will probably grate on your nerves, acting innocent and speaking cute was absolutely unnecessary for her age and in trying to make it look like she is new at love , given that song yuan didn’t like his female age mates at school for the same reason.
Canyang the leads make twin brother also really stole the show as he was a really funny character and I don’t think you can get through this drama without his character and that of the energetic and crafty Luming.
This drama had no devious and evil parents against their relationship. All the couple problems were self inflicted because they didn’t act brave for the love they believed in.
I want to see more of characters like canyang and Luming in cdramas, they brought so much comedy and life to their acting that made me finish 41 episodes else I would have dropped this drama because of the cute way Fanxing started trying to speak when she started her relationship with Song Yuan, it really dropped her character value to the regular stupid Typical female leads
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Cute cute so cute!!
Honestly have to say song weilong carried this whole drama. Plot is very simple and predictable so its really like your typical rom com but with incredibly cute couple moments! I sped through ep 1 to 25 but it gets kind of draggy from ep 25-30 ish onwards so they really could have kept the whole show shorter.I really really enjoyed watching the main couple and the minmin-prof couple! Their interactions are so cute (also hot at times) I am about to flip tables T_____T Some of the scenes really caught my heart and it's as though the age gap doesn't exist! Also, victoria looks younger and weilong looks older than they are so maybe that helped.
In conclusion, if you are looking for in depth plot then this is not for you but I would highly recommend this show to anyone out there who loves a good rom-com with very attractive and cute leads. May get a little draggy 3/4 into the show but hang on and you will enjoy the whole ride and squeal like there's no tomorrow!!
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1st half sweet romance, 2nd half amazing comedy
People say the story got slow after the 1st half, but I beg to differ.The story got FUNNY after the first half.
The first half is typical rom com trope -- main characters get together, second lead creates some misunderstanding between them, they break up.
And the second half could be really infuriating to watch if you don't like the second lead winning the lead's heart, but I found other more enjoyable things that made the watching process super worthwhile: the comedy.
The comedy stems from the characters' complicated relationships. Essentially we have our female lead who falls in love with an intern at her work, only to find out this intern is her new boss's son after they break up.
Also, this new boss and second male lead are friends, so new boss encouraged second male lead to chase the female lead and steal him away from male lead... only to realize later that the female lead's ex-boyfriend is his own son.
Also, second male lead has a niece, who is classmates with male lead, and confessed to the male lead...
but then later on the niece and the female lead's younger brother start dating...
(so if Minmin x Canyang and Luming x Fanxing were both couples... how do they address each other and their family members LOL
For Minmin, are the female lead's parents grandaunt/granduncle or mother-in-law/father-in-law?
For Fanxing, is Minmin her spouse's niece or her younger brother's wife?)
The step-by-step realization by the main characters, as well as by their colleagues, was a HUGE watching point for me as their facial expressions were often very telling. The family drama is also A+... the characters have so much chemistry.
Another thing to watch out for in the later half is male lead Yuan Song's attempts to win female lead Fanxing back. He has his parents on his side (omg when his dad found out his ex-girlfriend was Fanxing... that reveal LOL), as well as a new female colleague who was kind enough to lend him a hand.
His eyes and his hidden smiles when the female lead reacts according to his wishes...
beautiful "giving Luming a taste of his own medicine" work haha (in terms of being calculating in winning the female lead)
In the final few episodes we see some early themes come back. The leads' relationship started with the female lead saying things to male lead while drunk, and *re*started with the female lead drunk-calling male lead again.
And the ways they got each other to accept their love was also essentially just mirrors of the same conversation (and Yuan Song acknowledges this by saying "isn't this scene familiar" in the hotel room)
I'm all for dramas that do scene throwbacks like these because it shows the scriptwriter really put an effort in making things come full circle.
Finally, the side characters' quests for love and marital happiness were also super interesting to watch -- a huge fan of the cheating husband arc involving the female lead's best friend; it really added to the story about women in their 30's.
And the main characters' character development -- beautiful.
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pros:
1. the story progressed at a good pace
2. they showed how he fanxing has to find herself and what she truly wants, which is probably the purpose of the show
3. the acting was quite good
4. it had a bit of the slice of life vibe
5. the ost was nice
cons:
1. they talked about romance throughout the whole story( there was married couples, office and age gap romance though)
2. ye lu ming and he fan xing spent such a long time together that there so too little time for yuan song and he fan xing to have a nice ending
overall, i think the show is really worth watching, it’s sweet, funny and entertaining, with some valuable lessons to learn too!
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Rewatched Several Times
I been enjoying this series, watched several times from start to end. Is a FANTASTIC SERIES!!! I see Ms. He Fanxing as a Beautiful actress and her style in dressing is captivating too. The young fellow Yuan Song is attractive and his style is simple yet I find it interesting.It contains many silly moments. Ms. He parents, at times are hilarious. Not to mention other cast members too. Either way give it a shot before turning away from it. Also, it has it romance moments as well as a couple of sad ones. Therefore, a series with combinations of laughter, tears, love and more, definitely keeps me interested especially having an Understanding till the last episode.
I truly enjoyed this series!!
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