Familiar Wife (2018)

Decisions = Consequences whether you like it or not

I have a mixed feeling for this series. I was avoiding it for the longest time but then when I watched it, it's actually better than I imagined. Storyline-wise, I had a gist of what would happen and when I started to watch it, it was still kind of unexpected -- so there's an element of it being unpredictably predictable. At first, I just hate the male lead for being an ass and then gradually his character started to develop and I love how his character development went. Unfortunately, we can't say the same for the other characters because there was no continuity to their life, they just became an entirely new person after a minor change in the past that ultimately caused a butterfly effect. That's kind of where I am kind of disappointed because I can't really tell if the female lead on the 1st version, is the same as the 2nd version. They almost felt different. There were lots of questions in my mind as to whether if the time travel element wasn't present, would they improve the same way? What would've happened? I just felt like the female lead was completely deleted after all the time warp, but that's just my thought. This series also reminds me of a couple of other dramas like Go Back Couple and Emergency Couple.

JiSung and Han JiMin did a great job portraying their character though. I have watched tons of JiSung's dramas and he always delivers so it's nothing new to me. He has a wide spectrum of characters he can portray (the most iconic one for me is on Kill Me, Heal Me). For some reason, WooJin's mother is an iconic character in this series, too. I felt like she did a lot of roles to make the whole series make sense but I also love the mystery that surrounds her.

Overall, I did enjoy the time watching this. There were lots of cringe-y moments that kind of felt good. I watched this with my partner and we were having long discussions about making relationships healthier so that's a plus for me. This series kind of give you an idea what to do and what not to do in a relationship so I definitely recommend this. It's such a good show to watch with your partner.

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This drama is the perfect example of "You don't know what you have until it's gone" and "The grass isn't always greener on the other side"

Plot

Everyone is pointing out the similarities between Go Back Couple and this one. And yes,in the beginning they're definitely similar but to be honest,Familiar wife can't be compared to GBC. That drama was worth a perfect 10 and this wasn't (it's just my honest opinion)
So the plot isn't really unique and it has some flaws,it got boring from time to time and i wish it was shorter. They should've ended it around episode 13. I think they dragged the story too much (episodes 13,14 & 15 were just fillers) to the point i wanted to start a whole new drama and watch this one later. The writers also left a couple of questions unanswered.
But overall it's not like i didn't enjoy it,i actually did. I liked that it highlighted well the fact that most marriages and relationships aren't perfect and that you should learn to communicate better and have a good teamwork to make it work and not fall apart. Also, the ending was perfect. I'm glad i could see how all the characters lived before, during and after the changes.

Acting

The acting is a 10. The cast did a wonderful job and Ji Sung never disappoints.
Some of the characters are gonna get on your nerves. A LOT. But this drama has such an amazing character development. You can see it through all of the episodes. And it's really satisfactory.

So,it's not a drama that i will be remembering forever. It failed in making me feel excited until the end. And as a drama binger,i don't really recommend watching this all at once. (If you're like me and get bored easily...) But i do recommend it if you like time travelling dramas and amazing acting.

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Lacking something

I am not quite sure what to say about this drama. The plot overall in in one sense is truly relevant to present times and to a lot of married couples and in another sense it’s ...disjointed for a lack of better word. I have nothing against time travel plots (Signal is one of my 10/10 ) but somehow in this drama it’s just a means to an end for me. Maybe there’s just too many characters who knows about the time travel “secret” that it kind of lost it’s novelty in the middle of the story?

Dislikes: (1) portrayal of mom’s dementia is out of tune with reality. People with dementia forget their past, they do not act like little kids again. They lose their way around, they don’t “escape”. (2) No chemistry between the two main leads and the cringey relationship between the ML and the second wife. (3) don’t hate me but I find the FL acting here as “trying too hard” to be chirpy and energetic but somehow did not meet the mark

Likes: (1) Ji Sung’s acting chops did not disappoint, this guy is talented period. It’s a shame that the projects he’s done (that I’ve seen anyway) doesn’t really give his skills the spotlight it deserves. (2) The teasing of the office crew when they tried to bring the leads together, now that made me laugh silly. (3) The youngest male employee character “Hwan”, this kid portrayed the role impeccably, he’s a natural. (4) The best part I think is the bromance, their friendship was genuine despite of the “betrayal”, the actors were so good I feel that they were just playing with each other on the set during filming.

In summary this drama highlights the working mothers and wives and for that I appreciate the story but it failed to show how marriage is a two way relationship. It just won’t work any other way.

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Grass is always greener on the other side

Writing this review took me more that I care to admit. For a long time I wasn’t sure why, but it dawned on me, that the reason is fairly simple. This drama didn’t bring any emotions to me. It was just as average as it could. And it’s not exactly wrong thing.

Let’s start from the beginning, Cha Joo Hyuk, our main character is just an average bank employee. No-one really special. The problem is that he’s not really happy with his life, especially with his wife, who changed throughout the years and become very mean and even brutal person towards him. Having two little children doesn’t really make his life easier, especially that his private life really takes its toll on his work.

So it’s fair to say, he wished his life was different. And luckily he gets his chance of changing the future when he goes back in time to the day that changed his life. So the next day he wakes up in different house with different woman by his side. But is this change really for better?

This is the question that follows our main character, Cha Joo Hyuk, for the whole drama. There’s this old saying that came to my mind when I was watching the series: “life is always greener on the other side”, which means that we always find things that we don’t have more desirable. And this is basically the moral of this story. Because Joo Hyuk’s new life is not so perfect either. Soon he discovers that his wife, that he complained so much before was like that mostly because of him. When he meets her in this new life, she seems completely different, more likeable person. And his new wife is not so perfect as he thought she would be.
Joo Hyuk finally realises that problem with his marriage wasn’t his wife but rather what their relationship made of her and he’s sure that he doesn’t want to make this mistake again.

This is also a story of how our life choices matter and how we influence with our behaviour life of others. About mistakes of the past and understanding their consequences. It’s a story of how the grass is always greener on the other side.

The characters very strongly develop throughout the series and not only because of changes that Joo Hyuk makes in the past. Their choices have real influence on their character and later actions.

The thing that really didn’t stand out was the music or lack of actually original soundtrack. All we get is mostly generic background tune. So there’s not much to talk about here, but honestly I’ve noticed it in the middle of the drama and it wasn’t really nothing bad here.

I love how Joo Hyuk’s coworker’s attitude changes towards him in different scenarios. At first he wasn’t liked because he was always late and unreliable. Then they were nice to him because he married to influential family and basically he could do anything without consequences. They were finally truly friendly towards him when he was consciously himself and wasn’t burdened by problems in his relationships. He was most liked when we was literally the best version of himself.

There’re some good things I can say about this series, it has this absolutely amazing main idea, that I loved from the start. The only problem is that I don’t think it was used well enough. At the end we’ve got very solid drama, with good cast, but after finishing last episode I’ve felt a bit disappointed. This is just not one of those highly memorable dramas that you think about weeks after finishing it.
But on the other hand, it doesn’t have to be. What it is, is just enough.

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Questo drama mi ha lasciato una bellissima sensazione, ed è un tipo che non ti aspetti. Confesso che i primi due episodi introduttivi mi hanno sconvolto e ritraggono il peggior incubo di vita matrimoniale di tutti credo. Mi ha fatto ridere in diversi episodi ed è stato molto carino vedere come nonostante tutto lui continui ad innamorarsi della sua ex moglie (possiamo chiamarla così? ) La vita in due è sempre complicata, si sà e se si guarda solo i propri bisogni, finisci per trasformare il rappprto in un incubo. Ed è bello che dopo tutte le disavventure , aver perso e poi riconquistato la persona amanti, ci sia lo sforzo di entrambi per essere felici insieme, sincronizzati, una squadra insomma, gli episodi sono pieni di rabbia, delusione, rammarico e tenerezza, quando nell’ultimo episodio, la moglie regala al protagonista la console per giocare, mi ha fatto davvero sorridere, veramente un tocco di classe. Colonna sonora disponibile su Imusic, la consiglio perché è davvero bellissima.
L’unica cosa molto out è il/la costumista, ma come l’hanno vestito il nostro Cha Do Hyun?
Poverino.....

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Bellissimo lavoro,davvero emotivamente carico,con un tema complesso e attuale per me,ma in ogni caso trattato in alcuni momenti in maniera comica cosi da non rendere la storia un po pesante,segui la storia condotto dalla scenografia dolcemente,riesci davvero ad avere un legame empatico con i personaggi,Il fatto poi che la storia giri,diversamente da molti drama,intorno ad alcuni impiegati della stessa banca e' davvero divertente.
Per quanto riguarda il cast,mi e' piaciuto molto,Ji Sung di cui sono fan ed ho visto quasi tutti i suoi lavori,mi piace sempre,a questo modo naturale di recitare di un professionista che gli permette di fare mille parti diverde e sembrare sempre una persona diversa,lei,Han Ji min mi e' piuaciuta, gia vista in altri drama,ma qui la sua performance mia e' piuacita piu di altre volte,in ogni caso e' stato ottimo il vavoro di tutti gli attori.
Le musice sono bellissime,divertenti,che mettono il buon uomore.

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I love this drama not just because of the cast but the overall story. It's different from the Go Back Couple. I think this story is much more deeper and very heart-warming. One can truly realize that there's no such thing as ideal, easy or perfect marriage but it is really a give and take. Sometimes we are too overwhelmed with our own struggles and overlooked the feelings of the other. So much to learn in this drama. I definitely recommend this. =)
The cast was great both Ji Sung and Han Ji Min. I loved their character portrayal. The supporting cast was also great!

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Stick with this drama after the first two episodes, I promise it’s worth it. I went in to it thinking it would be a filler between dramas, but it was so much more. By the end of it I felt so satisfied. The characters were redeemed, not by changing the past, but by changing how they reacted to it going forward and changing their own behavior. It really made me wistful for what marriage SHOULD be: teamwork, respect, friendship, and love. The acting was great and story gave me all the feels. Was it realistic? Sometimes, yes. Time travel premise, no. But it’s definitely worth your time to watch. One of the better Korean dramas I have watched in the last few months.

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Cansativo e excessivamente normativo

Todos nós temos arrependimentos e a ideia de voltar para o passado para consertar algo enche muito os olhos, acredito que muitas pessoas aceitariam uma oportunidade dessas. Então a premissa do drama logo me prendeu, imaginei que fosse gostar, mas logo nos primeiros episódios foi uma luta terminar. Por ter sido indicação de uma amiga muito querida segui assistindo, mas minha vontade era de abandonar no segundo episódio. Foi bom não ter abandonado porque mais ou menos na metade a história se torna muito interessante e os personagens muito cativantes, com exceção do protagonista que apesar de simpatizar nunca foi o meu preferido. Enquanto personagens masculinos como Hwan e Jong-hoo me entretinham muito mais, me solidarizava com as personagens femininas e o próprio Cha Joo-hyuk acabava ocupando uma posição secundária. Nos episódios finais, "Familiar Wife" volta a ser cansativo e desgastante de assistir.
A trilha sonora não me agradou muito, diferente de outros dramas que só ouvir a música me faz ficar emotiva, as músicas desse me pareceram repetitivas e sem uma carga emotiva forte, talvez "No longer mine" seja a única exceção e a única memorável para falar a verdade.
O elenco é muito bom, mas não existe atuação que salve um roteiro fraco. A história é simples e interessante: Homem está em um casamento infeliz tem a oportunidade de voltar ao passado e mudar sua esposa, ao fazer isso percebe a pessoa incrível que sua ex-esposa é e o quanto era insensível com ela, assim faz de tudo para retornar novamente ao passado e reconstruir uma história em que ambos sejam felizes. Isso poderia ser feito em um filme de duas horas, mas em uma série de 16 episódios de uma hora cada é preciso encher com outras questões, o que o torna extremamente cansativo. É importante salientar que esse drama é muito sustentado pelas histórias secundárias, mas, por vezes, ela são excessivas e sem sentido para a trama, como a chegada do chef de cozinha que trouxe um conflito ínfimo resolvido com muita facilidade.
Mas o meu principal problema com esse drama talvez seja a super valorização do casamento tradicional e a sua representação como única fonte de felicidade possível. Nada me atrai em um casamento tradicional, não quero me casar, muito menos ter filhos, mas não é uma questão pessoal, mesmo esse não sendo o futuro que imagino para mim ao assistir séries ou filmes românticos torço pelo casamento dos protagonistas, meu problema em "Familiar Wife" é que praticamente todos os personagens aspiram um casamento para serem felizes e não qualquer casamento: um casamento tradicional com os papéis da mulher e do homem bem definidos.
Detestei o protagonista logo no primeiro episódio por sua postura egoísta e machista, ele não fazia as tarefas domésticas e culpava a esposa por erros que ele tinha cometido. Achei que com o passar dos episódios isso ia ser desconstruído e de fato foi, mas não completamente. Nos últimos episódios Cha Joo-hyuk ainda desempenha o papel do "macho" ciumento que tem que mostrar que aquela mulher é sua propriedade, sim ele não é mais egoísta e nem deixa a esposa lidar com o trabalho doméstico só, mas ele ainda desempenha um papel de ultramasculidade e isso é vangloriado.
Não é o tipo de conteúdo que eu prefiro assistir e também não indicaria a meus amigos. Entendendo porque minha amiga me indicou porque a premissa de voltar ao passado é interessante e é um drama muito divertido de assistir entre os episódios 4 e 12, mas não me emocionou ou me encantou de uma forma profunda, talvez tivesse me impactado mais se idealizasse um casamento, quem sabe? Talvez só não seja para mim mesmo.

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Nothing is perfect

Familiar Wife was a drama with its own strengths and flaws. Things usually don't go the way we want them to. But we will have to face the problems head instead of regretting the past decisions.
The drama had a good start. It portrayed the problems in a relationship realistically. Then comes the fantasy part when the ML suddenly gets a chance to go back to the past and change his future.
Many aspects of the story portray realistic problems that people face without making the drama a serious or emotional one.
The drama is off to a good start and maintains its pace. But I felt the last 4 episodes were dragged and a bit unnecessary.
All the characters had their own stories which developed well throughout the drama.
A few things were not properly explained but it doesn't affect the drama too much.
There is good chemistry between the leads though you will not get to see many romantic moments between the leads.
The cast was amazing and did a great job.
The drama does give you great life lessons and is also an enjoyable experience.
Overall it is a good drama which you can definitely try.

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Beta simp on a mission to find his abusive wife!!

True love is it not. When a 500 won coin liberates you from a thankless existence, so pathetic that even plot writers won't excuse themselves for shaming you for your wife's lack of communication skills, and then fate puts you on a pedestal, what would you do? Of course seek your misery again as your "one true love" in a post wall woman. Cute, is it not. Maybe good for fancies of 30+ age women.

This is the first drama I actually sympathized with "rich bitch" wife. Since such a character is usually abused by writers in KDramas. Here too they did try to show that she was preying on a younger lad, but I guess they found some sense and did turn it into "rich noona" situation. She's very good. Not a career obsessed freak. Totally waits on her husband. Her entitlement is a small compromise against the good stuff.

Misery loves company. That's the drama in a nutshell. Nobody can find fault in marvelous acting skills of Ji Sung and Han-Ji Min. But the characters here are not great. The onus of repairing seems to fall entirely on Ji Sung's character (husband). His wife's character does not realize any of her own mistakes(apparently she was short circuited and oppressed by her overworked husband who took extreme pains to give their family a good life.) In addition, there is the usual propaganda - housewife=depressed oppressed woman. Overworked post wall bank employee = career woman who is totally happy.

Bank employees and their antics provided much needed comic relief since the main lead's romance existed mostly in cringe flashbacks. I mean, Han-ji Min is a proper ajumma now. And Ji Sung is above 40. Not even the best makeup can make them look like high school students. Unfortunately, writers didn't write good comic script. The flyer with spelling mistake was probably the most original comic joke.

Cinematography: American sitcom ultra shake mode was always on. A thousand different cuts in one conversations. I mean, Han-ji Min's character is talking to that restaurant guy's wife. Tone of conversation is very muted. A casual talk. And the camera - cut to Han-ji Min's face, cut to other woman's face, cut to through the window shot, cut to inside the restaurant shot, cut to hair, cut to hands, cut to lips, cut to perspective shift, cut to....ah! Learn to operate a camera. Crafty angles won't make your pathetic dialogue sound like Buddha speaking at Jetavana.

Not worth a rewatch. You can drop it after Ep 12 if you ask me. Nice OST BTW. Ultra cheap drama with no location, costume, sets to feel great about. Most of the money was spent in lassoing expensive leads. I mean, they were running a bank in a hotel lobby. What do you expect.

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