Gay shit I watched
I prefer: goofy silly stories, complex plots and characters, gender-nonconformity, relationship dynamics in which both partners are equal (or at least both have a form of power, whether that be status or physical) and tease each other a lot, wholesomeness and good communication, slow burn, supernatural gimmicks, bright colors, indie productions, angst with a happy ending, queer themes such as found family, self-acceptance, social deviance and allegories for systemic oppression/cisheteronormativity.
I dislike: plots that revolve around jealousy and miscommunication, relationship dynamics that feel hierarchical or genderconforming (top=masc and hyperdominant, bottom= femme and utterly powerless), plots that take themselves too seriously without actually containing authenticity or depth, sad grey gritty-ness, graphic violence, sexual violence, gore, full nudity, unexamined judgment towards minorities. Those'll have lower ratings on average.
If you think you vibe with that, take a look. If not, I'm sure you can find some other list that works for you.
>9 means it's brilliant
>8 I'd def recommend.
7 means it's fun enough, might recommend, but there are no masterpieces here
6 means it's watchable but nothing special, standard fare.
5 means it's got some amount of redeeming qualities, but also issues.
<4 means I kinda hated it
mlm = gay or bi guys in here
wlw = lesbian or bi women in here
T = trans people in here. I don't count standard comedic relief trans women in Thai shows. They have to actually be a character.
A = ace and/or aro people in here
GNC = gendernonconforming people in here
Happy endings unless stated otherwise under the 'spoiler' tag. BL or GL unless stated otherwise. Current and dropped follow at the end.
I've decluttered the list by moving everything under 100 minutes here: https://mydramalist.com/list/1Xz6mOj3
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301. Love Area Part 2
Thai Drama - 2022, 8 episodes
dropped after ep 4
mlm. ~370 minutes
Incoherent and boring. Too many characters.
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302. Gen Y
Thai Drama - 2020, 12 episodes
dropped after ep 5
mlm. ~720 minutes
Typical early Thai BL, nothing new, too many characters, makes extremely little sense.
cw: femme-phobic
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303. Utsukushii Kare
Japanese Drama - 2021, 6 episodes
dropped after ep 2
mlm. ~140 minutes
I know that people like this, but I really hate this type of relationship dynamic.
Bullying tsundere chad dominates stuttering classmate who is made up of 90% social anxiety. Also chad has to be super pretty and good at performing arts, of course, and have a hair style that only really functions in manga.
cw: We're getting some school shooter romanticization for the lead even. Wow. Gay incel shit.
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304. Magic of Zero
Thai Special - 2022, 3 episodes
dropped
wlw, mlm. ~140 minutes
Only one episode is lesbian, that's the only one I even attempted, and it isn't faithful to the original Bad Buddy characters and it feels shallow so I dropped it.
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305. Oxygen
Thai Drama - 2020, 13 episodes
dropped after ep 1
mlm. ~585 minutes
Soulless. Dialogue doesn't feel like actual humans would ever talk like that. Feels like a cashgrab with zero effort put into it.
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306. Jack and Joker
Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
current
mlm. ~600 minutes
Robin-hood kinda guy does an enemies to lovers thing with good guy forced to do bad things. I love how every character, including background characters, gets agency, a chance to influence the story, and I love how distinct and internally consistent they all are.
cw: transphobic charicature, graphic violence
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307. HEHE&HE: Season 2
Hong Kong Drama - 2020, 19 episodes
current
mlm. ~340 minutes
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308. Only Friends
Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes
current
mlm, wlw, T. ~540 minutes
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309. Love in the Big City
Korean Drama - 2024, 8 episodes
current
mlm. ~400 minutes
Not a BL. This is queer media in the style that western gay stories often take. Not a romcom but a 'slice of life' that includes romance.
Gay college student rooms with chaotic boy-obsessed girl.
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310. Kidnap
Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
mlm. ~500 minutes
Sweet guy has to take an assassination job for money but hides the victim instead. It's solid. Just a well-executed BL. Mental health theme.
A lot of people are disappointed with this because the trailer promised a questionable power dynamic between the leads, and that did not materialize.
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311. Pluto
Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
current
wlw. ~540 minutes
Messy drama involving cheating and switching identities with twins. Am hooked.
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312. See Your Love
Taiwanese Drama - 2024, 13 episodes
current
mlm, wlw. ~350 minutes
Rich brat on the run from mafia meets deaf guy who's very good at kicking ass and hires him to become body guard.
It's campy nonsense, and I'm here for that.
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313. The Heart Killers
Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
current
mlm. ~720 minutes
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314. 7 Days Before Valentine
Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes
current
mlm. ~520 minutes
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315. Apple
Thai Drama - 2024, 6 episodes
wlw. ~270 minutes
Ever since receiving an eye donation to cure her blindness, she dreams about a really pretty girl. Pretty girl shows up in real life, and she's too star-struck to be a normal person about it.
The main character is such a dumbass. I love this.
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316. Caged Again
Thai Drama - 2024, 10 episodes
current
mlm. ~470 minutes
A penguin turns into a human, escapes zoo and enters high school. There he meets ex panther with social anxiety and a big crush on him, and they adventure through the human world together.
Very silly, and surprisingly good.
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317. Bad to Bed
Taiwanese Drama - 2024, 10 episodes
current
mlm. ~200 minutes
Slice of life gay couple, flashing back to previous relationships, dealing with current relationship issues, discussing queer issues.
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318. Dead Friend Forever - DFF
Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes
current
mlm. ~540 minutes
cw: seriously a horror
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319. Blue Canvas of Youthful Days
Chinese Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
current
mlm. ~360 minutes
An actual mainland China BL that had some censorship hiccups but seems to have managed a way around.
Insecure rich guy x assertive poor guy, and also deafness and sign language. I'm very impressed with this one so far.
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320. Doku Koi: Doku mo Sugireba Koi to Naru
Japanese Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
current
mlm. ~200 minutes
The most uptight lawyer ever meets a charming criminal and gets manhandled.
Definitely a high degree of wtf, but that also keeps you guessing as to what on earth is going to happen next.
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321. Eccentric Romance
Korean Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
mlm. ~180 minutes
Thai guy and Korean guy have been besties for forever, and maybe they're crushing on each other a lot. Also there's a murderer in their midst and they need to figure out who it is.
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322. Every You, Every Me
Thai Drama - 2024, 8 episodes
mlm, background A. ~440 minutes
Shorter BL stories with the same pair of actors. There is an overarching plot.
It's really good. I enjoyed it a lot. Excellent acting. Special props for whoever made these fashion choices. But I can't give every show a 9. This is really good, but not wildly amazing. Definitely worth a watch though.
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323. Let Free the Curse of Taekwondo
Korean Drama - 2024, 8 episodes
mlm. ~280 minutes
Taekwondo boys in bad familial situations support each other through that and fall in love, break up, time skip.
When they manage to communicate this is really charming, but most of the time they're being really angry and needlessly hurtful towards each other, especially Dohoe.
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324. Love Sick
Thai Drama - 2024, 15 episodes
current
mlm, wlw, T. ~830 minutes
A remake of the 2014 Love Sick, the Thai BL that started all Thai BL. there were some changes to the original plot, changes that make it fluffier and adorable, which I like, but also less progressive and transgressive, which I don't like. There is barely a female character with their own plotline left.
cw: transphobic caricatures. But also one good trans rep character, so they do know how to do it?
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325. Petrichor
Thai Drama - 2024, 10 episodes
current
wlw. ~600 minutes
Investigative officer and forensic pathologist work together, against a plot larger than they imagine.
Thumbs up from me so far.
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326. The Loyal Pin
Thai Drama - 2024, 16 episodes
current
wlw. ~720 minutes
Orphan princess comes to live in another palace and meets girl her age. They grow up as besties who definitely have feelings for each other. Since this is a period piece, the threat of marriage looms.
The reason this gets a seven is because the set, costumes, and production value are phenomenal. I am not impressed with the plot or acting.
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327. The Untamed
Chinese Drama - 2019, 50 episodes
current
censored mlm. ~2250 minutes
Epic magic fantasy adventure with one lawful good wizard and one chaotic neutral wizard, and they like each other.
I really like the flowy dresses these guys are parading around in, with magic and swords! Excellent. The setting is gorgeous. The acting is underwhelming (at least to me) but I think that's partially because China re-dubs all its audio rather than recording it on set. The plot is lord of the rings-esque in terms of its scope.
I recommend opening up an excel sheet and noting down the names of characters (each character goes by multipe names), as well as the names of clans they belong to (the clans also go by multiple names), and then a couple of lines of backstory on each character, like their family relations or motivations. They're all inter-related and going to come back and you're not going to remember who's who otherwise.
The gay-ness is obvious to me, but if my dad watched this show, he would miss it completely.
cw: bunch of murder, torture, zombies. The special effects aren't convincing so it doesn't bother me much.
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328. Your Sky
Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
current
mlm. ~580 minutes
Sweetest college kid in the world has to be fake boyfriends with stern schoolmate who probably has a secret crush on him.
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329. Bad Guy My Boss
Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes
current
mlm. ~590 minutes.
This is what it says on the tin. It's not brilliant, but it doesn't pretend to be, and I appreciate its honesty. It tries to be cheap entertainment and it does that well.
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330. Perfect10 Liners
Thai Drama - 2024, 24 episodes
current
mlm. ~1080 minutes
Aaaand we're back to writing about the most popular engineering students, enemies to lovers tropes. It's 2024, you'd really think GMMTV would let this die by now.
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331. Fourever You
Thai Drama - 2024, 16 episodes
current
mlm. ~720 minutes
This series asserts that watching benevolent sexism play out can actually be enjoyable as long as you turn the girl characters into smaller guys. This is beef I often have with BL, but this series takes it to another level. Much of the story would make a lot more sense if the bottoms were girls, e.g. 'No I'm so worried, he shouldn't be outside after dark, it's not safe' or getting inappropriately touched by creepy flirty guys who won't take no for an answer.
So, I roll my eyes, but oh well, this is what some women want to watch, and they should be free to cope with misogyny in their own ways, including twisting it to their own ends in media, so I'm not here to judge.
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332. Love In the Air: Koi no Yokan
Japanese Drama - 2024, 10 episodes
current
mlm. ~260 minutes
Remake of the Thai 'Love in the Air' (2022). Fairly faithful to the original series. I still don't like their dom/sub 'daddy' dynamic. But it's interesting to see Japan interpret a Thai story.
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333. Stealing from My CEO
Chinese Drama - 2024, 61 episodes
current
mlm. ~120 minutes
This is just the kind of wild nonsensical madness you expect from dramatic microseries. It's so stupid, but it is entertaining.
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334. Winter Is Not the Death of Summer but the Birth of Spring
Thai Drama - 2024, 21 episodes
current
mlm. ~110 minutes
Dude ends up in prison and falls for fellow inmate so hard that he willingly goes back.
Too slow, not enough dialogue.
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335. Manilennials
Filipino Drama - 2019, 12 episodes
on hold because I can't find episode 6 onwards
mlm, T, GNC. ~310 minutes
A bunch of loosely related queer twenty-somethings live their lives in Manila. Each episode is an individual story.
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336. Handsome Stewardess
Taiwanese Drama - 2019, 6 episodes
on-hold because I can't find episode 3 onwards
wlw, mlm, GNC. ~130 minutes
cw: transphobia
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337. Mate
Thai Drama - 2024, 10 episodes