Gay shit I watched

I prefer: goofy silly stories, complex plots and characters, gender-nonconformity, relationship dynamics in which both partners are equal (or at least both have a form of power, whether that be status or physical) and tease each other a lot, wholesomeness and good communication, slow burn, supernatural gimmicks, bright colors, indie productions, angst with a happy ending, queer themes such as found family, self-acceptance, social deviance and allegories for systemic oppression/cisheteronormativity.

I dislike: plots that revolve around jealousy and miscommunication, relationship dynamics that feel hierarchical or genderconforming (top=masc and hyperdominant, bottom= femme and utterly powerless), plots that take themselves too seriously without actually containing authenticity or depth, sad grey gritty-ness, graphic violence, sexual violence, gore, full nudity, unexamined judgment towards minorities. Those'll have lower ratings on average.

If you think you vibe with that, take a look. If not, I'm sure you can find some other list that works for you.


>9 means it's brilliant

>8 I'd def recommend. 

7 means it's fun enough, might recommend, but there are no masterpieces here

6 means it's watchable but nothing special, standard fare.

5 means it's got some amount of redeeming qualities, but also issues.

<4 means I kinda hated it


mlm = gay or bi guys in here

wlw = lesbian or bi women in here

T = trans people in here. I don't count standard comedic relief trans women in Thai shows. They have to actually be a character.

A = ace and/or aro people in here

GNC = gendernonconforming people in here


Happy endings unless stated otherwise under the 'spoiler' tag. BL or GL unless stated otherwise. Current and dropped follow at the end.

I've decluttered the list by moving everything under 100 minutes here: https://mydramalist.com/list/1Xz6mOj3

Ryn_333 oct. 15, 2023
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  • Love Area Part 2

    301. Love Area Part 2

    Thai Drama - 2022, 8 episodes

    4.0

    dropped after ep 4

    mlm. ~370 minutes

    Incoherent and boring. Too many characters.

  • Gen Y

    302. Gen Y

    Thai Drama - 2020, 12 episodes

    3.0

    dropped after ep 5

    mlm. ~720 minutes

    Typical early Thai BL, nothing new, too many characters, makes extremely little sense.

    cw: femme-phobic

  • Utsukushii Kare

    303. Utsukushii Kare

    Japanese Drama - 2021, 6 episodes

    3.0

    dropped after ep 2

    mlm. ~140 minutes

    I know that people like this, but I really hate this type of relationship dynamic.

    Bullying tsundere chad dominates stuttering classmate who is made up of 90% social anxiety. Also chad has to be super pretty and good at performing arts, of course, and have a hair style that only really functions in manga. 

    cw: We're getting some school shooter romanticization for the lead even. Wow. Gay incel shit.

  • Magic of Zero

    304. Magic of Zero

    Thai Special - 2022, 3 episodes

    2.0

    dropped

    wlw, mlm. ~140 minutes

    Only one episode is lesbian, that's the only one I even attempted, and it isn't faithful to the original Bad Buddy characters and it feels shallow so I dropped it.

  • Oxygen

    305. Oxygen

    Thai Drama - 2020, 13 episodes

    1.0

    dropped after ep 1

    mlm. ~585 minutes

    Soulless. Dialogue doesn't feel like actual humans would ever talk like that. Feels like a cashgrab with zero effort put into it.

  • Jack and Joker

    306. Jack and Joker

    Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    9.5

    current

    mlm. ~600 minutes

    Robin-hood kinda guy does an enemies to lovers thing with good guy forced to do bad things. I love how every character, including background characters, gets agency, a chance to influence the story, and I love how distinct and internally consistent they all are.

    cw: transphobic charicature, graphic violence

  • HEHE&HE: Season 2

    307. HEHE&HE: Season 2

    Hong Kong Drama - 2020, 19 episodes

    9.0

    current

    mlm. ~340 minutes

  • Only Friends

    308. Only Friends

    Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes

    9.0

    current

    mlm, wlw, T. ~540 minutes

  • Love in the Big City

    309. Love in the Big City

    Korean Drama - 2024, 8 episodes

    9.0

    current

    mlm. ~400 minutes

    Not a BL. This is queer media in the style that western gay stories often take. Not a romcom but a 'slice of life' that includes romance.

    Gay college student rooms with chaotic boy-obsessed girl. 

  • Kidnap

    310. Kidnap

    Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    8.0

    mlm. ~500 minutes

    Sweet guy has to take an assassination job for money but hides the victim instead. It's solid. Just a well-executed BL. Mental health theme. 

    A lot of people are disappointed with this because the trailer promised a questionable power dynamic between the leads, and that did not materialize.

  • Pluto

    311. Pluto

    Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    8.0

    current

    wlw. ~540 minutes

    Messy drama involving cheating and switching identities with twins. Am hooked.

  • See Your Love

    312. See Your Love

    Taiwanese Drama - 2024, 13 episodes

    8.0

    current

    mlm, wlw. ~350 minutes

    Rich brat on the run from mafia meets deaf guy who's very good at kicking ass and hires him to become body guard.

    It's campy nonsense, and I'm here for that. 

  • The Heart Killers

    313. The Heart Killers

    Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    8.0

    current

    mlm. ~720 minutes

  • 7 Days Before Valentine

    314. 7 Days Before Valentine

    Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes

    7.5

    current

    mlm. ~520 minutes

  • Apple

    315. Apple

    Thai Drama - 2024, 6 episodes

    7.5

    wlw. ~270 minutes

    Ever since receiving an eye donation to cure her blindness, she dreams about a really pretty girl. Pretty girl shows up in real life, and she's too star-struck to be a normal person about it. 

    The main character is such a dumbass. I love this.

  • Caged Again

    316. Caged Again

    Thai Drama - 2024, 10 episodes

    7.5

    current

    mlm. ~470 minutes

    A penguin turns into a human, escapes zoo and enters high school. There he meets ex panther with social anxiety and a big crush on him, and they adventure through the human world together.

    Very silly, and surprisingly good. 

  • Bad to Bed

    317. Bad to Bed

    Taiwanese Drama - 2024, 10 episodes

    7.0

    current

    mlm. ~200 minutes

    Slice of life gay couple, flashing back to previous relationships, dealing with current relationship issues, discussing queer issues.

  • Dead Friend Forever - DFF

    318. Dead Friend Forever - DFF

    Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes

    7.0

    current

    mlm. ~540 minutes

    cw: seriously a horror

  • Blue Canvas of Youthful Days

    319. Blue Canvas of Youthful Days

    Chinese Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    7.0

    current

    mlm. ~360 minutes

    An actual mainland China BL that had some censorship hiccups but seems to have managed a way around.

    Insecure rich guy x assertive poor guy, and also deafness and sign language. I'm very impressed with this one so far.

  • Doku Koi: Doku mo Sugireba Koi to Naru

    320. Doku Koi: Doku mo Sugireba Koi to Naru

    Japanese Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    7.0

    current

    mlm. ~200 minutes

    The most uptight lawyer ever meets a charming criminal and gets manhandled.

    Definitely a high degree of wtf, but that also keeps you guessing as to what on earth is going to happen next.

  • Eccentric Romance

    321. Eccentric Romance

    Korean Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    7.0

    mlm. ~180 minutes

    Thai guy and Korean guy have been besties for forever, and maybe they're crushing on each other a lot. Also there's a murderer in their midst and they need to figure out who it is.

  • Every You, Every Me

    322. Every You, Every Me

    Thai Drama - 2024, 8 episodes

    7.5

    mlm, background A. ~440 minutes

    Shorter BL stories with the same pair of actors. There is an overarching plot. 

    It's really good. I enjoyed it a lot. Excellent acting. Special props for whoever made these fashion choices. But I can't give every show a 9. This is really good, but not wildly amazing. Definitely worth a watch though.

  • Let Free the Curse of Taekwondo

    323. Let Free the Curse of Taekwondo

    Korean Drama - 2024, 8 episodes

    7.0

    mlm. ~280 minutes

    Taekwondo boys in bad familial situations support each other through that and fall in love, break up, time skip.

    When they manage to communicate this is really charming, but most of the time they're being really angry and needlessly hurtful towards each other, especially Dohoe. 

  • Love Sick

    324. Love Sick

    Thai Drama - 2024, 15 episodes

    7.0

    current

    mlm,  wlw, T. ~830 minutes

    A remake of the 2014 Love Sick, the Thai BL that started all Thai BL. there were some changes to the original plot, changes that make it fluffier and adorable, which I like, but also less progressive and transgressive, which I don't like. There is barely a female character with their own plotline left. 

    cw: transphobic caricatures. But also one good trans rep character, so they do know how to do it?

  • Petrichor

    325. Petrichor

    Thai Drama - 2024, 10 episodes

    7.0

    current

    wlw. ~600 minutes

    Investigative officer and forensic pathologist work together, against a plot larger than they imagine.

    Thumbs up from me so far.

  • The Loyal Pin

    326. The Loyal Pin

    Thai Drama - 2024, 16 episodes

    7.0

    current

    wlw. ~720 minutes

    Orphan princess comes to live in another palace and meets girl her age. They grow up as besties who definitely have feelings for each other. Since this is a period piece, the threat of marriage looms.

    The reason this gets a seven is because the set, costumes, and production value are phenomenal. I am not impressed with the plot or acting.

  • The Untamed

    327. The Untamed

    Chinese Drama - 2019, 50 episodes

    7.0

    current

    censored mlm. ~2250 minutes

    Epic magic fantasy adventure with one lawful good wizard and one chaotic neutral wizard, and they like each other. 

    I really like the flowy dresses these guys are parading around in, with magic and swords! Excellent. The setting is gorgeous. The acting is underwhelming (at least to me) but I think that's partially because China re-dubs all its audio rather than recording it on set. The plot is lord of the rings-esque in terms of its scope.

    I recommend opening up an excel sheet and noting down the names of characters (each character goes by multipe names), as well as the names of clans they belong to (the clans also go by multiple names), and then a couple of lines of backstory on each character, like their family relations or motivations. They're all inter-related and going to come back and you're not going to remember who's who otherwise.

    The gay-ness is obvious to me, but if my dad watched this show, he would miss it completely.

    cw: bunch of murder, torture, zombies. The special effects aren't convincing so it doesn't bother me much.

  • Your Sky

    328. Your Sky

    Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    7.0

    current

    mlm. ~580 minutes

    Sweetest college kid in the world has to be fake boyfriends with stern schoolmate who probably has a secret crush on him.

  • Bad Guy My Boss

    329. Bad Guy My Boss

    Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

    6.0

    current

    mlm. ~590 minutes.

    This is what it says on the tin. It's not brilliant, but it doesn't pretend to be, and I appreciate its honesty. It tries to be cheap entertainment and it does that well.

  • Perfect10 Liners

    330. Perfect10 Liners

    Thai Drama - 2024, 24 episodes

    6.5

    current

    mlm. ~1080 minutes

    Aaaand we're back to writing about the most popular engineering students, enemies to lovers tropes. It's 2024, you'd really think GMMTV would let this die by now.

  • Fourever You

    331. Fourever You

    Thai Drama - 2024, 16 episodes

    6.0

    current

    mlm. ~720 minutes

    This series asserts that watching benevolent sexism play out can actually be enjoyable as long as you turn the girl characters into smaller guys. This is beef I often have with BL, but this series takes it to another level. Much of the story would make a lot more sense if the bottoms were girls, e.g. 'No I'm so worried, he shouldn't be outside after dark, it's not safe' or getting inappropriately touched by creepy flirty guys who won't take no for an answer.

    So, I roll my eyes, but oh well, this is what some women want to watch, and they should be free to cope with misogyny in their own ways, including twisting it to their own ends in media, so I'm not here to judge.

  • Love In the Air: Koi no Yokan

    332. Love In the Air: Koi no Yokan

    Japanese Drama - 2024, 10 episodes

    6.0

    current

    mlm. ~260 minutes

    Remake of the Thai 'Love in the Air' (2022). Fairly faithful to the original series. I still don't like their dom/sub 'daddy' dynamic. But it's interesting to see Japan interpret a Thai story.

  • Stealing from My CEO

    333. Stealing from My CEO

    Chinese Drama - 2024, 61 episodes

    6.0

    current

    mlm. ~120 minutes

    This is just the kind of wild nonsensical madness you expect from dramatic microseries. It's so stupid, but it is entertaining.

  • Winter Is Not the Death of Summer but the Birth of Spring

    334. Winter Is Not the Death of Summer but the Birth of Spring

    Thai Drama - 2024, 21 episodes

    6.0

    current

    mlm. ~110 minutes

    Dude ends up in prison and falls for fellow inmate so hard that he willingly goes back.

    Too slow, not enough dialogue.

  • Manilennials

    335. Manilennials

    Filipino Drama - 2019, 12 episodes

    8.0

    on hold because I can't find episode 6 onwards

    mlm, T, GNC. ~310 minutes

    A bunch of loosely related queer twenty-somethings live their lives in Manila. Each episode is an individual story.

  • Handsome Stewardess

    336. Handsome Stewardess

    Taiwanese Drama - 2019, 6 episodes

    7.0

    on-hold because I can't find episode 3 onwards

    wlw, mlm, GNC. ~130 minutes

    cw: transphobia

  • Mate

    337. Mate

    Thai Drama - 2024, 10 episodes

    6.5

En vogue