The 80/20 Rule of Love (2022)

Một mối quan hệ lành mạnh.

Đợt phim chiếu mà bị chê dở nhiều quá, nào là Dương Mịch già, dầu mỡ, Hứa Khải đơ, đọc thoại như trả bài... Nhưng đối với mình đây vẫn là bộ phim ổn và chỉn chu. Mình không tiếc thời gian đã bỏ ra xem phim.
1. Điểm cộng
- Nhạc hay, lồng ghép hợp lý và dẫn dắt cảm xúc người xem.
- Mối quan hệ giữa nam chính và nữ chính cực kỳ lành mạnh. Cả hai đều là những phiên bản không hoàn hảo, ai cũng có những nết xấu khó coi nhưng họ đã vì nhau mà thay đổi, trở thành phiên bản tốt hơn của chính mình.
Mình cực kỳ một mối quan hệ không yêu nhau từ cái nhìn đầu tiên, không phải tình yêu sét đánh mà ở bên nhau lâu dài đủ hiểu nhau và từ đó hai trái tim tìm thấy sự đồng điệu trong tâm hồn. Vì nhau mà trưởng thành, vì nhau mà cố gắng.
- Phim không có couple phụ. Kể cả có thì tua cũng không ảnh hưởng đến mạch phim.
- Mình cực kỳ đồng cảm với nhân vật Tần Thi, vì đổ vỡ gia đình mà không tin tưởng vào tình yêu, hôn nhân, sợ bị tổn thương. Nhưng thật may đã có một Dương Hoa với trái tim ấm áp yêu thương Tần Thi.
- Dù là tình chị em nhưng nam chính cũng gần ba mươi nên không bốc đồng, trẻ trâu mà chững chạc, trưởng thành để có thề làm "toà thành" cho nữ chính.
- Chem giữa nam nữ chính ổn và bình yên. Không phải kiểu bùng nổ mà nhẹ nhàng như nước, từ từ thấm đẫm. Mấy cảnh làm nũng của Tần Thi cũng đáng yêu lắm
- Đào Tuấn Huy ngon wa trời à. Lý Trạch Phong diễn vai thâm tình mà mình quắn quéo hehe. Đoạn đòi lấy Tần Thi bùng nổ cảm xúc thật sự. Ảnh ơi, lấy em!!!

2. Điểm trừ
- Cả câu chuyện thì hay nhưng phần kết hơi vội và yếu. Thôi vẫn là HE hee he.
- Hứa Khải diễn nhiều lúc hơi đơ 🤡. Cảnh tình cảm thì tự nhiên lắm nhưng nhiều khi cần thể hiện cảm xúc thì gương mặt đẹp trai của anh như tượng trong chùa huhu.

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Yang Mi is always great but Xu Kai seemed to be sleepwalking through the drama. They had little charisma together. Or, rather, Yang Mi was giving everything she could but Xu Kai looked like he'd rather be playing video games. Relationships with big age gaps seem to work best when the younger partner is mature beyond his or her age, rather than when the older partner is immature for his or her age. I don't think Xu Kai quite pulled off the mature beyond his age role. And since this was all about the relationship, the drama fizzled. The remaining characters were not very likable either.

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A perfect contract marriage drama

Been waiting for this drama for a long time. One for the two main characters YM and XK, two eyes candies, no need to explain more. I thought it going to be a pluffy love story, but the storyline is very intriguing and refreshing! The surprise and fast pace of each case make me anticipate the next episodes. Waiting for the next day is torturing. Love QS strong women character and YH perfect husband chemistry! The only annoying part is the ex’s annoy fiancée that really need a life. Overall it is funny, heart warming and refreshing.

And for those who are complaining about last episode but in my opinion this is the best way for female lead to understand the meaning of marriage .

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Watch this of course for my Xu Kai & Yang Mi. Although I quite like the dynamic between this couple but the plot itself more & more uninterested toward the end.

All the case related to them is kinda doesn't make sense & I kinda doesn't really understand what that's all about.... It seem what Qin Shi (QS) did in her lawfirm kinda over her scoop as an attorney, like when they defense He Dong Na, or when they want to make pre-martial agreement, all the things they did I don't know is it lawyer supposed to do...? And also all the chaos related to Yang Hua previous job very confusing....

What I really like from this couple (QS & Yang Hua) is how mature they are. They always talk about their feeling and honest with each other. But their feeling is so sudden & quite unclear when it's even started. The other thing that I really like is the friendship between Li Dai & QS. The healthy rivalry that in the end make friendship out of it...

What I really don't like is how childish Wu Fei is. Yeah I know jealousy is a b*tch and very hard to control. But at first she's the one that arrange the job for Tao Jun Hui & yet she's also the one that did all the stupid things in the end.

And don't let me started with QS's brother & his wife. How messy their marriage is. One of the most toxic relationship that I've ever watch in the drama....

Well in the end this just another drama to watch.

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A drama with the potential to score, and then the writer & the director dropped the ball!

This drama had a lot of potential, but the writing was shoddy, and the director also did a poor job of telling the story. There were holes in the storyline throughout, that left the viewers guessing and wondering what just happened and why! There was no obvious character development even with the main characters.

I started watching this because of the excitement from the (mostly) followers of both Xu Kai and Yang Mi. Xu Kai was good in his role as Yang Hua – and Yang Mi as Qin Shi was passable. I found him to be a little too passive and she was wooden and barely emotional until the very end when things fell apart.

I think the thing that saved this drama for me was the chemistry between the ML & FL. Despite their poorly written roles, their connection was believable, and they were sweet together, especially Yang Hua. (Those puppy dog eyes). Yang Mi was underwhelming – not believable as a kick-ass independent career woman. She could deliver some good punchlines, but ruined the image with the whiny, petulant kissing-up to her lady boss.

Let’s talk about the story arcs. SML (Tao Junhui) – I didn’t know whether to pity him or kick him to the curb. His character had potential to be a decent person but man! Weak and spineless! And his girlfriend was such a spoiled, bratty bitch! She certainly did not deserve the ending she got. The brother (Wenyu) and his wife (Meimei) – what a dysfunctional mess! We had to guess about their ‘growth’ and they too turned up with a happy ending. Yes, ML & FL got their happy ending too, but I don’t think enough time was given to that conclusion and it felt like we were cheated out of it in the last episode.

People who deserve special mention:
Baddies – Li Dai. I see quite a few viewers admired her. I did NOT. She was a vicious bitch. With ‘friends’ like those, you don’t need enemies. Her character could have been admirable. Instead (imo) she was petty, spiteful and mean. Tang Yihui (lady boss) – what a piece of work! And FL was like her lapdog - fawning and desperate for attention. It’s a pity she got away with so much manipulation. And just a mention – Yang Hua’s mom. If I had a parent like her, I would ask to be put up for adoption.
Goodies – Yang Hua’s best friend (Cai Liang) – misguided and shallow at times, but a true friend. There weren’t a lot of those in this series. Qin Shi’s older brother – I'd like a big brother like him. But the best character of all hands down was Yan Hua’s dad! Soft-spoken and long-suffering, but wise and loving of his family, especially his son. I loved his scenes the most (after our lead couple, of course).

I wanted to give this one a high rating and a good review, but after about episode 30, it was mostly downhill for me. I can’t even say it’s worth re-watching. After the long wait and anticipation, it disappoints – and that is solely the fault of the writer and the director.

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You can find love in unexpected places . . . but do you want to?

Due to hijinks, Qin Shi and Yang Hua decide to pretend to be husband and wife. They both 'could do worse' and are attractive . . and so why not move from fake to real? The suspense comes from Qin Shi being a known quantity, but Yang Hua is a mystery to the audience, why does he know so much about finance? why does he have such an odd attitude towards relationships? What makes him tick?

It's not the most compelling plot, but there is an eagerness in seeing him finally lose his cool, or revealing some of the mysteries of the past.

But, I am dropping this series because I absolutely can't stand the secondary couple. They are both miserable, but the woman doesn't want to let go, and the man is incapable on his own. The family tries to encourage the woman to stay as she is a steadying, good influence on him and the family business. This is the story of every dysfunctional relationship ever, and by all accounts has been going on for years . . . what are we supposed to be learning from this? It's beyond the we fight and make up phase.

They are showing every single sign of a completely failed relationship, physical violence, emotional and/perhaps sexual cheating, demeaning and derisive comments about each others characters. It may turn out that there is a relationship lesson down the line, but for now it seems to hint that they are some sort of Romeo and Juliet, instead of a couple who should have split up years ago before people got hurt. I started skipping their scenes, but the pros are small and cons large for this series, and it's time to give up.

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keep your expectation at your lowest

I've waited for this drama since last year. The teaser seems promising. I love the actors. Tbh I expect it to be like Love you just the way you are and maybe a bit below you are my glory in terms of quality.

What we got is the generic throw your brain away to watch this. I cant watch it anymore

1. WTF with that toxic relationship between her bro n friend. I always skip theirs because there was no character development for them and they were given A LOT of screentime.
2. WTF with that wu fei girl. At first she seems decent, but suddenly she turn super crazy and irrational like a different person??
3. WTF the reason behind Qin Shi's lie. All she did was say yes to that sly boss when I expect her to be smart not dumb like that.
4. QS and YH relationship is bland, awkward, and very little progress.
5. Of course the stupid ending.... they always have good communication and suddenly the divorce and being away for months? WTF is that.
6. The antagonists got away just like that.
7. I dont even care about the workplace story at all. I skip almost all of it since ep 14. And by ep 18, I cant continue anymore. Just watch QS and YH scene till ep 30. And then enough is enough.

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She carried the show.

I watched this drama because I like both leads although I have not watched anything from Yang Mi. I have a rather positive impression of her. The synopsis sounded interesting and so, I gave the show a go! I quite enjoyed it but there are other dramas which, to me, are more engaging and more interesting than this one. Nonetheless, this drama is truly, to me, good enough to watch and to chase. I wanted to go from episode to episode as the drama was generally fast-paced enough and generally engaging enough.

What I liked:
- I liked Yang Mi in the show. Her character had a lot of sass and was intelligent. She was ambitious and strove hard to get her wants. She looked very charming in most of her clothes. I must say that she's a pretty sight.
- The ML, Xu Kai, was rather "meh" in this drama though. I expected much more from him. He had so much potential from what I saw from his other productions. The chemistry between the leads was okay but not hot and sizzling.
- The acting from most of the cast was stellar. The plot was okay.
- FL had more chemistry with her ex-bf.

What I didn't like:
- I can't stand FL's mentor, Hui Jie. To me, she's a pretentious bitch. So fake in the way that she speaks.
- I can't stand Wu Fei. She spoke haltingly like a retard and I constantly wondered how she suited being a lawyer who is supposed to have the gift of the gab. Everyone else spoke normally but she spoke as though she was somewhat mentally challenged.
- I can't stand Wenyu and Meimei. Their relationship is hard to watch and hard to stomach. They should have split up. It was annoying whenever they appeared on the screen.
- Noble idiocy was somewhat present. I didn't like that as the ML was supposed to be very smart.

Overall, this drama was OKAY and I enjoyed it because in "She and Her Perfect Husband", She carried the show and made it all work. I'd say: Can still watch! Quite good!

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Nice little Noona/Cohabitation/Contract Marriage show

Well I actually really enjoyed that - at least the bits I didn't skip past. Loads of the usual cliches but still came over as quite fresh. My enjoyment was pretty much driven by the leads, most of the secondary characters I found supremely uninteresting to unpleasant. The little brother and the 2nd couple especially pissed me off spoilt bitch and wrist grabby man.

Tang Jing Mei I find difficult to cope with as well - she's like a live-action IG filter, though I am ashamed to be so put off by her looks.

The lead couple gave a great performance with some really nice chemistry and some laugh out loud moments. There was plenty of kisses but the hugs were the winners for me. They show cased an adult mutually supportive relationship with little foolishness till the last few episodes which had a Because this is my First Life feel to them. If I rewatch the series I'll not bother with the last two or three.
The Lawyer stuff on the whole bored me but I did appreciate the Me Too ness of it all.

All in all worth a watch if any of the headline appeals.

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I know that their opinions always come first, so the phrases and thoughts leave you thinking. The protagonist is someone more real, except when he makes poetry 🤭 but he's cute and smart. The character creation that Xu Kai does is incredible. I like that the protagonist is not that toxic person that abounds in stories.
We are at a time when we no longer want toxic men and what they told us as alpha men, today we appreciate intelligence and mutual support more.
Ahora sólo me falta verla en inglés porque los subtítulos a veces eran tan sin sentido. Lo que más me gustó en definitiva fué Yan Hua.

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A day of my life was wasted I will never get back

this had had me contemplating that I'm wasting my life watching this show a whole bunch of episodes that was unnecessary and in the ending didn't resolve none of the relationships I feel like I watch a conclusion to a TV show that ended with no conclusion to nothing, the brother and the girlfriend you didn't resolve anything in the relationship in the end and she just had a kid they look happy what the Frick. On the main lead came back to the girl in the ending but she still has the issues of not talking about her feelings. How could you say your feelings to your friends but not to the man you love this is ridiculous. I feel nowadays they make stories that's fucking stupid didn't resolve nothing or try to resolve the relationship aspects of the stories their wrights they just make a whole bunch of chaos and ended in chaos

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